ok i really really like two guys one whom i and dating but i really really like his older cousin and he likes me too he says he wants to wait for me if i want to stay with my boyfriend but i have no idea what to do can you help me
2006-12-18 05:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by amy lamb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright. First of all, you need to ask yourself some questions. Who do you "really really like" better? Who's personality do you think is better? Which out of the two of them is a better person, will respect you, and treat you well? After you've figured that out, decide for yourself. No one can decide for you. It's your boyfriend and you get to choose. Since I don't know what their personalities are like, I can't answer too well. But I can give you questions to ask yourself.^^^^
2006-12-18 05:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by dramatic_girlie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go for the older cousin. That way when the older one sees how bad you hurt your man for another guy, he will dump you for being disloyal. And you will learn that relationships are not a game. SO stay with you guy the only reason the cousin is interested in you is because he can't have you.
2006-12-18 05:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by kinreep 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you crazy? Why in the world would you want to keep yourself in the family like that. You know that your current boyfriend and his cousin would be talking about you and comparing notes. You also better hope there's no females within the family that won't decide to fight you for the stunt you're wanting to pull. Just based on you calling him your boyfriend I can tell that you're young. You need to grow up before you get beat the hell up. Jerry Springer wants to talk to you.
2006-12-18 05:57:36 · answer #3 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Grow up and make a decision. Just remember that the current boyfriend will not be at all happy to hear you are with his cousin.
2006-12-18 05:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be up front and date them both. Keep everything out in the open. Tell them you can't decide and you're playing the field. It's perfectly OK. How else are you going to find out who you like better?
2006-12-18 05:53:40 · answer #5 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is really not a good situation to be in.you have to ask yourself how strong are you feelings towards your boyfriend and if you really want to hurt him to be with one of his family members. if he's treating you right then whats the problem?
2006-12-18 05:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are too young to be dating.
2006-12-18 05:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by Jeancommunicates 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋