Its way less stressful than living with a family member although I don't want to live with my bf or my family. My parents are very spiteful, greedy, and selfish and my boyfriend just needs to grow up. Where am I going to go?? I can't afford to live on my own because I'm in school and pay out of my pocket and I work full time. What am I going to do??
2006-12-18 05:54:04 · 14 answers · asked by Benny 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
He's not ready to marry me.
2006-12-18 05:57:21 · update #1
Go to the beach at night. Be sure to bundle up. Don't do anything. Just listen to the waves and feel the cold breeze on your face. Concentrate on breathing. If you don't have a beach nearby, then get in touch with nature. It's the best way to clear your mind.
2006-12-18 05:57:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go to school, so are you in college? If you are have you tried staying in a dorm. That may not work and you may have to get an apartment. the best thing to do is try and find some roomates. If you can get 3 or 4 people that would bring down the rent for each person a lot. some schools have apartments located near the college that they recommend to students. Try meeting with someone from the college to talk about somethinglike that.
2006-12-18 14:03:22 · answer #2 · answered by angelicasongs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay living with your boyfriend then it is going to ruin your relationship with him. However it kind of sounds like you are staying with him so you have a place to live. Whether that is true or not, it does sound like its not a good situation. Do you have any other family members you could live with like a sister or aunt? Apply for some scholarships and financial aid to help you pay for school and you can sometimes get enough to help pay for living costs. Then you could find an apartment or house to rent with someone else so that it is cheaper.
You are just going to go downhill from here if you stay in your current stressful home....
2006-12-18 14:01:33 · answer #3 · answered by College girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask around to see if any of your friends are looking for room mates or may want to share a place with you. A group of girls can spit rent pretty easily.
An immature boyfriend and selfish family does not sound like a healthy environment for someone so young like you.
Take a chance and become indepenedent. It's difficult but so worth it. Good luck
2006-12-18 13:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by pittsburgh-girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, men can take a while to grow up. Can you find a cheap place for a while? If you can't then take some 'me time'. Go to a place that relaxes you, a library, club, join a gym or book club. Just do something that you enjoy every now and then,. I t relieves the stress.
It took my fiance a few breakups, a son and a few literal fights to BEGIN to grow up!!
2006-12-18 14:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop feeling sorry for yourself. you talk about your parents being greedy and selfish - did you read your own question? - you sound like them - WHERE AM GOING TO GO?? it seems like you already have had 2 places to go and not mature enough to handle either. until you can get out on your own and support yourself -- you shouldn't be choosy -- it's like the old saying goes -beggars cannot be choosy. be thankful you have a roof over your head and it's not costing you a penny. there's plenty of time when you get out of school and making a salary to get the lifestyle you are looking for.
2006-12-18 14:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there! I feel your pain, I'm in a similar situation, the only difference is, is that my bf is cheating. You need to set some goals for yourself, "as far as moving". Give yourself so many months and see what happens. I look so forward to moving, I can't wait to have my own place again.
2006-12-18 13:59:47 · answer #7 · answered by Extraordinary Woman~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, 18 or older they have goverment housing. Or do you have any friends you wouldn't mind living with? Just look at everyone around you all your friends and family it cross out the ones you dont want to live with.
2006-12-18 13:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by amanda b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get married and then live together. That would be less stress and will also give you some tax breaks.
2006-12-18 13:56:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read.Dont be surprised, it really works.U r taken into the books world and u forget your troubles and the book consumes your mind.I would start with the book Eragon.
2006-12-18 13:59:06 · answer #10 · answered by animefan2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋