i hav noticed dat my hubby loves me only physically....at times becoz i sum wat feel dat he kind of ignores me in public , not exactly ignore but doesnt give me vibes lke other newly couples does. and he gets romantic oin d bed...how should i no dat whether he loves me only for dat or he really has feelings for me?,,,,,,,i wanted to also no dat how should u keep ur husband in charge ? so pls help.
2006-12-18 05:59:34 · 9 answers · asked by mahveensmum 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you lost me, learn english first and ask your question again. dump the guy and move on it is that simple
2006-12-18 06:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by bone 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Girl, count your blessings. Some of us don't even get the attention in private let alone if public. I use the attention in public but when we were in private nothing. He just might be one of those guys that doesn't like to show affection in public. He might feel he doesn't need an audience to see how he feels about you. Now you have only been married 5 months, give him and yourself some time to adjust to be married. Change does not happen overnight. I'm sure he loves you for more than that. Men don't usually marry you for just that. In any case talk to him about how you are feelings and see if you two can't come to some kind of compromise.
2006-12-18 14:03:12 · answer #2 · answered by kitcat 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait..How long have you guys known each other for?? It seems like you may have jumped into marriage before getting to know each other. Marriage isn't about controlling one another nor is it about sex. It's more than that. Think about it, what will you gain if you are trying to control him? Nothing. If you start doing that, he might stray. I think you guys might need marriage counseling on this.
2006-12-18 14:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by Fashionista 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely you could tell before you married, he was only interested in sex. Ask him to go with you for marriage counseling. He may love you and be willing to change. I would say enjoy the sex in the mean time.
2006-12-18 14:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you have a talk with him about this? tell him that you feel like he's using you and that you need to know what exacly it is that he feels for you. That you ned to know if he loves you or is just using you for his fun. Don't let him use you this way. You sound like a anice person and you need to stand up for yourself and don't put out unless you feel appreaciated and that goes for all women out there!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 14:15:58 · answer #5 · answered by Cheesy Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Lord, I want to help but I can't understand the question with all the ebonics typing!
2006-12-18 14:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, lost me too I understand this is a casual forum, but, hey, English is the only language I understand well.... sorry. This isn't really English.
2006-12-18 14:13:29 · answer #7 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you treat your marriage with the same clarity and excellence as the manner in which you wrote your question, I would say he just wants you for the sex.
2006-12-18 14:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how you feel, afterall you are married and you need to discuss things that are bothering you. if you dont your feelings will continue to get hurt over his lack of romance towards you.
2006-12-18 14:03:54 · answer #9 · answered by Bri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋