the very next day he sends email like he does everyday like nothing has changed..what should i do..ignore him until he gets message or..talk to him again and restate what I said when i broke up with him??
2006-12-18 05:57:52 · 10 answers · asked by wartytoadjody39 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ignore him, you should only have to tell him one time that it's over. He'll eventually get the hint that you meant what you said.
2006-12-18 06:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
Was he a friend, before he became your boy friend?
What does 'not being your boyfriend' mean?
What rights and privileges does a boyfriend have, that a friend does not have?
I would not date someone unless I was friends with them first.
If I gave them girl friend status, then in my mind, I would like to be more than friends, and I would like it to exclusive.
When I break up with some, it usually means that the relationship is not going anywhere, or that one of us feels that sexual intimacy is out of the question or there is problems with being exclusive. It does not necessarily mean, "I hate your guts and I never want to see you again."
You can have an ex and still care. It could be that he is trying to let you know there is no hard feelings, but I do not know the content of his email. Since it bothers you, you need to talk to him about it and see if you are on the same page.
2006-12-18 14:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you grow up before you get into any more relationships.
Presumably a boyfriend of more than a couple months deserves more than you're gone, don't call me.
If you can dump guys that coldly you don't deserve someone who gets attached. That leads to a life of loneliness.
2006-12-18 14:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you asked this in Marriage & Divorce, I assume you're married. Just ask your husband to beat the ex up -- I'm sure he'll be happy to help you out.
2006-12-18 14:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him one more time that you don't want to be with/talk to him anymore, and that if he sends you any more emails you will simply delete them without reading them. don't be mean, just be firm. you clearly want to make a clean break, which is smart, but sadly it sounds like your ex won't get the picture unless there is no way for him to think he has a hope of getting you back.
2006-12-18 14:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get your new boyfriend to beat the crap out of him.
No, just kidding (kinda).
Don't email him back, but don't ignore him. If he has any friend you talk to, talk to them and get him to back off. Failing that, confront him once, only once, then block his email address.
2006-12-18 14:03:41 · answer #6 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Restate it one more time, if he doesnt honor your request, then Ignore him. Block his address, and dont take his calls. Good luck
2006-12-18 13:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Ignore this psycho....It sounds to me like you like the attention.
2006-12-18 14:08:10 · answer #8 · answered by daprty1 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
ignore it. if he keeps it up after a week, block his e-mails. if he calls, block his number. if he still calls, get the police involved. if he ever EVER shows up unannounced, call the police.
2006-12-18 14:13:39 · answer #9 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would say you have to re-state it,
but if he doesn't get it by then, probably just ignore him.
2006-12-18 14:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by Chrispy 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋