We were together for 3 years and 4 months ago he broke up with me to go back to his ex wife. These past 4 months have been terrible between us because I wanted him back so badly and didn't know what he wanted to do. His ex was right in town influencing his decision making and lying about me and that has created fights between he and I. I love him despite the bullcrap and don't want him to hate me because she came between us. We had a great 3 years together. They have a son together and for whatever reason, he never stopped loving her despite her divorcing him. She wanted him back and he went.
2006-12-18 06:03:23 · 10 answers · asked by thewhalehunter12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know it hurts, but you can't make someone love you.He has a history with this woman, and if he went back to her, he must still love her very much. The best thing, and the hardest to do, would to let him go. If you are meant to be together, then it will happen. If not, then it is best that you move on. I know it might not seem like it now, but I am sure you will find someone who will love you for who you are, and you and you alone. Though it might not seem so at this time, there are other people out there who you might be better for you than your ex. I would think going after your ex and trying to "make" him love you will only do the opposite and make him more annoyed than anything else. Relationships are so hard. It is 50/50. Falling in love is the easy part... having that love returned is the most difficult, but when you are with the right person, it is so much better.
2006-12-18 06:18:45 · answer #1 · answered by Darlene L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a wise lady I knew told me the best way to get over a boy is to get another boy...and to keep repeating until you can't even remember the one you want to be over. Keep away from the loser boy. He cheated on you and now he just wants you for sex. And the sex he wants is the type where you will feel bad about yourself. Never go near him again. Go out and meet new people. Look for a different group of kids at school to hang with. And keep your eyes open for the boy who always seems to be near you...doesn't talk much...but seems nice...and is always both looking at you and smiling. He likes you and is unsure how to approach you since he thinks you are so great. So during a quiet time go up and talk to him. Just a hi and maybe a comment about school or the lastest news or even 'nice shirt'. He'll be quiet as he is scared but do it a few times. Then chat a bit more with him and end with 'I think you are nice...let's do this again'. Slowly you will bring him out of his shell and Instand Boyfriend! And the great news is it is the boyfriend that thinks you are the neatest girl in the world.
2016-05-23 04:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it...do you really want him back even though he decided to leave you? Do you think the relationship would be worth it to constantly feel like he wants his ex-wife instead of you? Yeah of course it's hard to break up with someone you love...but within a matter of time, you'll be better. What did you do to him? Why should it matter to you if he hates you. You didn't do anything! Maybe him going back to his ex-wife would be better for him and his kid.
2006-12-18 06:10:51 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy1316 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well seriously i think that there i snot much that you can do other try to forget him because if he is just going to leave you like its nothing then you should not be with him especially whenhe is going to leave you with a child to raise on your own and really when you think about it, if he is going to go back with someone that got hurt before by the same person that means that they have ow self esteem and let me tell u that you do not want that in a guy.
2006-12-18 06:29:08 · answer #4 · answered by missbaize_3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so here it is right in ya face.What does the letter X mean?He went back to her girlfriend what does that tell you?You are much more valuble to yourself and there are other men around but you won't find one if you keep mooning over ya X..Don't forget that xxxx ya understand.I have a X I truly loved and was thinking of going back to him also BUT.boyfriend married my first cousin that did it.I have now moved on.DON'T WAIST YA TIME..
2006-12-18 06:10:08 · answer #5 · answered by gblue52 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are fixating on him because you can't have him, move on and let them have their life back. You need to find someone new (preferably someone already single).
2006-12-18 06:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by togetheradecade 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but you were the rebound relationship
2006-12-18 06:10:07 · answer #7 · answered by onelonevoice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't want you than let it go.
2006-12-18 06:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by Danny 88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and move on with your life.
2006-12-18 06:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there isn't very much you can do
2006-12-18 06:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋