What do you do when this guy used to flirt with you everyday in class,but was scared to aproach you,so you approach him and give you his number? He calls the same day and ya hit it off. Then during a conversation he mentions that he's not looking for a relationship,he's not ready for commitment.I told him I would make a bet with him that I would win him over in a month and make him change his mind, and he said he not gone bet me because his feelings are increasing for me and he don't want them to,and I may be right. So how do I approach the situation? He's been checking me out along time before we started talking.We had a math class together,and we didn't start talking to the last class day,that's when I worked up the courage.He said he was glad that I gave him my number. We've been talking for about 2 weeks. Should I not label it and try to get closer to his heart? Or should I stop talking to him cold turkey?
2006-12-18 06:12:44 · 4 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He says he doesn't want to be in a relationship because he's very focused on school and that he doesn't want any distractions. He also says he's very busy.I believe him to because before we started talking I would go to our math teacher everyday to check over my homework,and he would be there when I got there doing the same.
2006-12-18 06:23:49 · update #1
aww the poor guy :( he's probably trying to not be in a relationship, but he wants to be with you! I'd say to stop flirting... but you can still talk to him :) be his friend until he's ready to be in a relationship again. Hopefully he'll be worth the wait! :D
2006-12-18 06:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest not labeling it, don't presure him... Just get closer to him, you made the first move, you've spoken together about it, you know how he feels (so don't push him), he know's how you feel... so just try to spend more time together... plan activities where it's just the two of you, with a hint of a romantic feel.. don't overwelm him, and don't push him...
2006-12-18 14:17:25 · answer #2 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would try and get closer to his heart! if you go cold turkey you will loose every chance you ever had with him.
2006-12-18 14:16:56 · answer #3 · answered by Babydoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, but please stay in school.
2006-12-18 14:14:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋