Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

i really like my friend, and i told him recently. i feel like im holding back my my feelings because i dont want to feel like im coming on too strong and i dont want to freak him out, how long do i have to hold back for?

2006-12-18 15:09:35 · 16 answers · asked by carxoxo07 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I work with and I really like him, he might like me too but I can't tell because he's nice to everyone. I've never had a boyfriend, gone out with anyone, or even told a guy I liked him before. So I have no idea what to do. It's easy for guys because all they have to do is say, "Hey, will you go out with me?" but what are girls supposed to say!? We both work on Christmas so I think I want to tell him then but I don't know what to do!

2006-12-18 15:09:35 · 19 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Both gals and guys answer this one plz. Either tell me the worst ones or the ones you actually think are funny!!!

2006-12-18 15:09:35 · 18 answers · asked by Melvina 2 in Singles & Dating

with your own company?

2006-12-18 15:08:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we lived together and contemplated marriage....we broke up because of stupid reasons, we still talk but now he has a new girl who doesnt like us talking at all...i want to be friends but i think its best if we are not. how can i get over him?

2006-12-18 15:07:13 · 14 answers · asked by AAF 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

we been togahter for 5 yearss and he's ben falling of in every aspect of falling of falling of there is . i mean i don' t want the world but i NEED 2 knowv that i mean something.
and i feel that i don't . How do I let hIM kNOW THAT iAM wILLINNG tO lEAVE THIS RELATIONSHIP!!!!!

2006-12-18 15:06:56 · 13 answers · asked by nikki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband left me and three small children to move three blocks away for anther woman. He is well known so I can't just not think of him. He is in the newspaper often. I hear about him and his new woman. I can't move home because it was destroyed in the hurricane that hit Mississippi. So I am stuck on the East Coast and want to die. Any help? Anyone?

2006-12-18 15:05:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex has a girlfriend.. But he has told me that he is still inlove with me.. He isn't inlove with her.. He cares for her but that is about all.. She lives with him.. But he still has sex with me.. I am also pregnant.. Not sure if he or my other ex is the father but My true love is always there for me.. He told me that there could be a chance for us to get back together.. Should I wait or let go?

2006-12-18 15:04:24 · 9 answers · asked by underwood80@verizon.net 2 in Singles & Dating

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that

2006-12-18 15:04:23 · 10 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do guys do this? It is frustrating to say the least. I think I like this one person and I think he may share the feelings, however I am so scared to say anything because I am always just "the sister type". I have been married once and I have a daughter the people that I have been attracted to since then have children and have been single. What do I do to make myself more attractive and less sisterish?

2006-12-18 15:04:16 · 3 answers · asked by WINGS 4 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend doesnt pay attention to me anymore?
he wakes up around 4:00pm he goes eat with his friends comes visit me for a couple of minutes at my work then he goes back to his house and sleeps till 10:00pm he goes to work at 11:00 Pm he comes back at 7:00am then everything starts again. sometimes i get fustrated cause he asleep all the time, and doesnt want to be bothered. i know he works alot but he doesnt need to sleep alot. Then at night when i get out of work at 11:00 he expects me to be on the line talking to him the hole night. i tell him. Nobody bothers you when your asleep so dont bother me at night.
what should i do am i over reacting.

2006-12-18 15:04:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend is divorced from a woman for two years now. she goes from guy to guy to guy, house to house to house. she is very unstable. she lost custody of her three children to two different men (one is my boyfriend). she seems to have run out of guys to live with at this point and my boyfriend can tell that she is trying to get him to hook back up with her so she has somewhere to go. my boyfriend is very kind-hearted. so, she calls him today and leaves a message saying that she asked her 7 yr old son (who HE has custody of) what he wants for christmas and he said that he'd like to go out with his mom and dad together. i'm sure the boy did not say this. he said he is not going to even aknowledge the message. she does not like the fact that he found someone normal. i asked him what he is going to say when she asks him in person. what should he do and should i let this bother me?

2006-12-18 15:03:54 · 14 answers · asked by Hello Kitty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife threatened to leave me two months ago.Things have not been right since. We have been married 3 years and been together for 9 years. I am so in love with her.We have a two year old that I love very much. I couldn't live without him at home every night when I get off work.I have broken down in tears many times telling her I could not live without them in my life and all I get is "You'll be ok." She is a stay at home mom so therefore has no income.I work 60 hours a week and spend all my time when I get home with her and him.I could understand her leaving if I was cheating or leaving her to go out with friends but I do none of that. I take her out shopping every weekend and spend all my time with her and my son. She says she's just not happy but has never complained until she threatened to leave me. I want the best for her and my son. Is there something I am missing here or am I doing what a husband/Dad is suppose to do.

2006-12-18 15:03:37 · 15 answers · asked by mtk0519 2 in Marriage & Divorce

(FIL).

2006-12-18 15:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am just trying to find one of those where you type in a few things about yourself and someone else to see how compatible you are?

2006-12-18 15:03:30 · 2 answers · asked by sammie.leigh 3 in Singles & Dating

I've had feelings for this guy for about a month now, and I don't know how to tell him that I'm head-over-heels for him. It's insane! I don't know if he's interested in me! Whenever we get together, he's always touching my arm, and playing with my hair, and staring at me. The thing is, he hasn't told me if he's interested in me or not! I'm so confused- I want to tell him how I feel, but I don't know how, and I'm afraid of being rejected. ARRGH!!!! I'm so used to guys telling me how they feel and asking me otu themselves, but I can't do that myself. Please Help Me!!!! How should I tell him how I feel?

2006-12-18 15:03:11 · 1 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Singles & Dating

hmmm! :)

2006-12-18 15:03:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

so much that you get scared to lose her, what would you do? honestly, for example would you try to impress her or runaway! or tell her the truth or... what??

2006-12-18 15:02:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 15:02:26 · 30 answers · asked by Kristine L 1 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking of just something simple and a non mushy card.
Help!

2006-12-18 15:01:18 · 15 answers · asked by dawndmo 2 in Singles & Dating

I was at his house the other day and his cousin came over and I noticed that she was talking shi**t on me to him. She always does that I've tried to talk to her but she always dogs me. We've been together for about 2 months and everything was goin good and that one day when I told him that why was she rude to me problems started and I told him that I was not going to take her shi###t any more and he then decided to break up with me. Do you think it's because of her? Well we also just did it the other day and maybe he didn't like it too much. What do you think?

2006-12-18 15:01:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I truly love my girlfriend. I would like to write her a letter expressing my feelings. How should i start?

2006-12-18 15:00:28 · 17 answers · asked by Mr. Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 n engaged, do u think this is to young? i'v known my bf years n we never had sex, im still a virgin n he is waitin until im ready to give it up, n we r in luv

2006-12-18 14:58:57 · 26 answers · asked by haitian_child 2 in Weddings

Should i send it to them?

Dear Friends,

I'm sending this to all of you, and I know it is a long time coming. I write to apologize for potentially offending you when I deleted my facebook profile a few weeks ago abruptly without notifying any of you. This was inconsiderate on my part and I sincerely apologize for any offense taken and I truly hope that it does not affect any aspect of our friendship. I value each and every one of you and our friendship deeply and did not want to jeapordize that by leaving this unaddressed. I do not intend to put a profile back up, and I know that because of that, I have already and will soon lose contact with many of you. However, despite that, I want you all to know that I enjoyed and continue to enjoy my time with each and every single one of you. Though we may never see or even talk through the internet ever again, I hope you all know that I admire you and value our friendship and wish you all the best in the future. Again I am very sorry. Thank you.

2006-12-18 14:58:40 · 9 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

I really like this guy. He is my dad's best friends son. He is really cute and sweet and sensitive ( whether he likes to admit it or not). Sometimes we flirt, but other times he acts shy again. I'm so confused. I jus can't stop thinkin about him. I've liked him for a year and a half now. Should I tell him I like him?

2006-12-18 14:58:31 · 21 answers · asked by archonette08 3 in Singles & Dating

I am dating this guy for about two months that I had crushed on for for about a year and there is something about him that brings out my wild side. I am an absolute freak with him, last night we had sex on the hood of my car in the driveway. I can not help it I have gone nuts, but I am kind of scared that he is going to get turned off by this, what do you guys think?

2006-12-18 14:57:34 · 17 answers · asked by dontknow 2 in Singles & Dating

What made you decide to get married? do you think there is an approiate age to get married (maturity level)? How long did you date your spouse before you jumped the broom?
Just trying to determine if I am wasting my time with this guy i'm dating.

2006-12-18 14:57:34 · 15 answers · asked by 24K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I was told that is the case by several people. However my sister's boyfriend is from Scotland, born and bred, and he has never once heard of that. Does it really matter, if the color is flattering on the bride and she were to choose to wear it?

2006-12-18 14:57:16 · 3 answers · asked by Cinnamon 6 in Weddings

i dint bleed on first time, so my bf feels i m not virgin.Is that much necessory? or that we did not reach to the extreem level??any idea abt what cud b the prob?

2006-12-18 14:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Singles & Dating

...take a lover outside of my marriage. Although I have deep affection for my wife and a real friendship, I'm afraid that's all there is between us. It's lasted all of these years because we both bend, rationalizing its shortcomings. However, I cannot do that anymore when it comes to miserable sexual performance which is constantly frustrating and unsatisfactory for me. My wife knows my unhappiness but demonstrates nothing but indifference. I believe she's incapable of giving more. Though I've tried to overcome it, she continues to suffer from vagissimus, a once painful and still debilitating, restrictive condition whereby she pushes outward instead of drawing me in when sex is attempted. Since I am gentle with her, it is difficult to overcome. Now I know that many of us who answer these questions tend to be more of a prudish nature, but I'd appreciate it if you'd drop that pose if you answer this question. I guess I'm really looking for validation, not lectures.

2006-12-18 14:56:58 · 20 answers · asked by Nightwriter21 4 in Marriage & Divorce