I really like this guy. He is my dad's best friends son. He is really cute and sweet and sensitive ( whether he likes to admit it or not). Sometimes we flirt, but other times he acts shy again. I'm so confused. I jus can't stop thinkin about him. I've liked him for a year and a half now. Should I tell him I like him?
2006-12-18 14:58:31 · 21 answers · asked by archonette08 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really think you should tell him. He may not know that you like him, so it may be good to just say it. If you are scared to tell him have your friend (me of course) to tell him or you may need to step outside of your box and flirt a little more aggressively.
2006-12-19 03:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dellora R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea girl go for yours!! lol Seriously, you wouldn't want to miss out on a good man now would you?
My husband and I were great friends growing up. But, before then, he liked me and I liked him as well, but I didn't want him to know that. Well, one of my cousins told me, "all right, while you playing that is a good man and some one gone come and snatch him right off from under you!"
I'm so glad I listened to her! We are married, have 2 kids, and he is the BEST! You know how everyone says, all marriages have there problems, well this may be one of the few that don't!
In other words, go ahead and tell him. That may be your HUBBY to be..lol
2006-12-18 15:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by tawannajones2217@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shy guys are always the hardest ones to figure out. I say go for it and tell him how you feel.You know what, he might say no, but then agian, if you never ask, and he is shy, you know nothing is going to happen. Sometimes you have to risk rejection to find love. Good luck.
Sheri
2006-12-18 15:07:18 · answer #3 · answered by Sheri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him if he likes you if he says no then move on. He wont know what he's missing! But if he says yes(which I strongly believe he will) then there u go! But really you should tell him how u feel that way u 2 can talk about it.
2006-12-18 15:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Shae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him... That he flirts sometimes and is shy other times is a sign that the feeling is probably mutual...
2006-12-18 15:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already waited 18 months, why tell him now. If you move too fast, you will scare him away. I suggest that you wait at least another 8 months before doing anything. If he doesn't hit on you by then, take him somewhere private and show him your boobs.
2006-12-18 15:03:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! You'll never get anywhere in life if you're afraid to take chances. My fiancee and I are childhood sweethearts and if I hadn't told him I like him when I was 13 where would we be?
2006-12-18 15:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, he probably acts shy at times because he's not sure if you like him. He's probably having the exact same feelings.. go for it.
Good luck!!
2006-12-18 15:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is almost 2007, and I think a woman should be assertive and speak her mind. Tell him what you think...you make the first move. I bet you will be glad that you did:)
2006-12-18 15:01:36 · answer #9 · answered by deb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, there's no need to keep those feeling bottled up inside, just go for it, you never know until you try.
2006-12-18 15:01:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋