Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

My gf and I have been together for 3 years and we purchased a home together 2 years ago. My gf makes the majority of the money and therefore pays most of the bills.I had 2 jobs to pay the bills 1 job was to pay for the housebills and the 2nd was to pay my child support. Well I no longer work at job #2 so I must rely on job #1 to pay the housebills and my child support. My gf figues out how much money we need each week to pay all of our bills, she hands me the bills she knows I can afford (from job #1's pay check)and she takes the rest inclulding the food bill and whatever is left she puts into her savings account. I used job #2's pay to cover my child support, weekly expense and put the left overs in my savings accout.Now that I don't have job #2 I can't afford to pay the housebills and my child support all from Job #1. I have asked my gf to include my child support into our housebills but she refuses she doesn't think it is an importand bill. Do you think my gf should help me out?

2006-12-18 15:42:02 · 24 answers · asked by music 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 15:41:24 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 15:41:23 · 16 answers · asked by Dwyane 2 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends is seeing this guy, he has a girlfriend and they've been together like forever but she's sleeping with him every other week. i dont know what to think, they're both really good friends of mine. his gf is a huge ***** n no one can stand her... wat would u think of her?

2006-12-18 15:40:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-18 15:39:54 · 31 answers · asked by Oh Dee! 3 in Singles & Dating

For the past few years Christmas gift-giving with my hubby's side of the family has seemed really difficult. I'm looking for new ideas! There's his Mom/Dad, his Sister/Her Hubby/2 Boys and our family of Me/Hubby/2 Kids. Everyones on a tight budget. We're not very close so we never know what to buy eachother. And drawing names from a hat seems silly cause we're such a small family. Any suggestions?

2006-12-18 15:39:43 · 9 answers · asked by micjamms 2 in Family

Hello I will love to but I never have had the chance, I moved from Mexico and I only been with Mexican women and wen I came to America I was already with somebody, but now I am single and I'm going to start dating again, I love all women, White are so beautyfull so hot, Black expectacularly beautifull, asian wow, my latinas are muy bonitas, all of them. do you like mexican guys how is it to date with somebody diferent than you thank you see ya.

2006-12-18 15:39:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 15:38:51 · 9 answers · asked by Zacklee 4 in Friends

I'm was mad at my friend but I want to make up with her. After we make up I'm afraid she might get mad at me if I tell her who I have a crush on (she has had a crush on him) and she said she was over him but she said that 2 days ago. I need to know if u think u would get mad if u were in my situation. Please help!

2006-12-18 15:37:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 15:37:44 · 3 answers · asked by rose 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for 1 year. He and his ex-girlfriend were together for 18 years but have been broke up for 6 years. She is still a big part of his life. He told me that it is something I must deal with...and I have been trying my best. But now he tells me that he has decided to spend this X-Mas eve with her and her family without me. It really hurts me that he puts her before me...especially since he knows that I have NO Family whatsoever. What should I do???

2006-12-18 15:37:24 · 37 answers · asked by Strong_Will 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 15:37:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ask this because even though we feel in the heart we have to process the thought in our brains. what do you think, is love in the heart or mind?

2006-12-18 15:37:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK there is this girl I have worked with for over a year and we barely talk (I'm pretty shy). This is kind of odd but here goes. When I see her she acts almost indifferent, yet the other day my boss says "Kim has been talking about you" right in front of her and she turns beet red and covers her face with her hands and starts doing that thing where you laugh so hard it doesnt even come out (like a nightmare when you try to scream but are so scared nothing comes out). What the hell?? She hasnt given me a JACK of clue for over a year! She has a flirtatious relationship with her boss though so mabye they are just ******* with my head but man I have no ******* clue. What do you make of this? Does she like me, or am I ******* clueless and dreaming?

2006-12-18 15:36:27 · 2 answers · asked by Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

im 18
we were at a friends house
and my bf cousin(boy) was there
my boyfriend wasnt there
and his cousin started flirting with me
and i just started talking to him
then all of a sudden he kisses me
and now everytime he sees me
he tries to kiss me
i dont wanna tell my bf cuz i dont
want to be the reason for them to fight

ive told his cousin to leave me alone but he just wont stop
but why is this guy doing this?
he knows im going out with his cousin(my bf)

why would he do this?




he starte

2006-12-18 15:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Friends

2006-12-18 15:35:16 · 4 answers · asked by Cindy S 1 in Singles & Dating

is that the same as the regular way or is it just like it didnt happen?

2006-12-18 15:34:11 · 12 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

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2006-12-18 15:34:06 · 8 answers · asked by sndnads.com 1 in Singles & Dating

How do i tell her....There is this one girl...shes beautiful...we are the best of friends and get along like we could be together forever...i never forget to tell her she's beautiful... i wanna just run up to her and kiss her all over to show her how much i am in love with her...it's not lust i guarantee it...we've been best friends for a couple years...lust would have wore off...but i dont wanna tell her that i love her because i dont want her to take it wrong and have awkwardness....shes interested in another guy...i think its gone a little past interest...i dont ask her about it because i dont wanna hear it if its bad news...i wanna tell her how i feel about her...tell me what you think...and maybe give me some things to say to her that would help me out...thanks to all.

2006-12-18 15:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently heard from people at my boyfriend's school (we go to different high schools) that the school slut has been trying to get him to sleep with her, lately. He is not interested in her and would never be unfaithful to me, but it still makes me angry. Should I go to her and make it clear that he's mine, or would that be me being too possessive?

2006-12-18 15:33:29 · 7 answers · asked by hottie_spaniard 2 in Singles & Dating

The present is jus a soft disney stuff animal and the light up crystal bear. She's jus a friend of mine, not gf yet.

2006-12-18 15:32:50 · 15 answers · asked by Mr Quite OK 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been talking with a guy online for about 6 months. We talk, write, and use webcam. I have seen his work, his home, his family, and most of all his personality and character. He says he loves me, now, and i know he is pretty crazy about me. And we plan to meet in March. I feel that I am love with him, also. I even broke up with him for a month...had dates with other people...but I could not get him out of my head. (I had to do some talking to get him back. lol) But like he said, he could not let go of me,either. It was really useless trying to date other guys. I feel with him, like I have not felt since I was a young child...I am 53. My brother met his wife over the internet and they have been married 8 years now. But, I wonder am I just kidding myself...or could this be the real thing? It sure feels like it.

2006-12-18 15:30:33 · 17 answers · asked by Katie Poo 2 in Singles & Dating

and i thought that he liked me... and i started to like him... and then boom he starts like flirting with my friend.. like we will be hanging together and he will walk up and say hi to her... and stuff and put his arm around her and all this stuff... and be like wow ur hot... but only when i'm around and it makes me mad......but we have one class together and he talks to me then... like sits by me and offers to help me and stuff.... i don't know what to do next.... does he like me or not??!??!

2006-12-18 15:30:21 · 4 answers · asked by Black_Attack 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with the same wonderful guy for over 4 years. He is cute, smart and atheletic. He is wonderful in all ways but one. We have been together for awhile, and he still doesn't know what he wants.
I know what I want, and I just don't know what I should do.
This past April I moved in with him, and now I am not sure what he wants. I know that I love him, but I don't know how much longer I can stay with him being so unsure of what he wants. Am I putting to much pressure on him, or am I being stupid. I want to move forward in our relationship, and take it to the next level, you know get married, and have a family. I am not getting any younger (26) and I want to have a family while I am still young enough to enjoy it.

2006-12-18 15:29:33 · 27 answers · asked by sllcone 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this guy he flirts with me and everything but he has women all over him all of the time. I really like him what ahould I do should I just forget about him or like him?

2006-12-18 15:29:32 · 12 answers · asked by Jazmin B 1 in Singles & Dating

My suddenly ended our 2 yr relationship saying his parents arent happy about us and that he suddenly realised (after talking to his dad) that he needs to be alone.
I love him so much and would do anything to have him back but its impossible. Im so messed up over this i have considered ending it all. i just cant be without him, we had all these plans together and then he just throws everythin away. has anyone else ever felt like this?

2006-12-18 15:27:16 · 15 answers · asked by Onie 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem. I broke up with my exgirlfriend and she moved 45mins away. We still have sex and she claims Im the only guy she's sleeping with. She came to visit me on Sunday. She went to a party and came over my place afterwards. She waqs drunk, we had sex but a few things puzzle me. She left her house to come to this party in my state and when she was on the road (about 20mins from her house) I asked her to come spend the night with me after she left the party. She agreed. She didn't plan on staying with me until I asked her too while she was driving. When she showed up she had on a black jump suit outfit with no bra and her legs were cleanly shaven and so was her vagina. She normaly does this for me but remember she didn't have plans on staying the night with me until I called her so all this preparation was done b4 hand. While she slept I checked her phone and found that she had my number in her phone but under a different name. A nickname I use to call myself but she never used

2006-12-18 15:27:14 · 24 answers · asked by mike h 1 in Singles & Dating

just wondering because im really in love with this girl and im 20 and some say its too early but I dont think so.....i mean i have a good job, i can support her, im in the air force, everything will be fine.....

2006-12-18 15:26:40 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I play on a bowling team and I couldn't make every monday so I got someone else to bowl for me on the alternate weeks. Now I'm told that I have to pay for the weeks that he bowled in my place. Any advice?

2006-12-18 15:26:27 · 8 answers · asked by gmoore61 2 in Singles & Dating

if your hooked up with this girl or guy and they fart accidentaly do you suddantly find them unattractive?

2006-12-18 15:26:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating