I have a problem. I broke up with my exgirlfriend and she moved 45mins away. We still have sex and she claims Im the only guy she's sleeping with. She came to visit me on Sunday. She went to a party and came over my place afterwards. She waqs drunk, we had sex but a few things puzzle me. She left her house to come to this party in my state and when she was on the road (about 20mins from her house) I asked her to come spend the night with me after she left the party. She agreed. She didn't plan on staying with me until I asked her too while she was driving. When she showed up she had on a black jump suit outfit with no bra and her legs were cleanly shaven and so was her vagina. She normaly does this for me but remember she didn't have plans on staying the night with me until I called her so all this preparation was done b4 hand. While she slept I checked her phone and found that she had my number in her phone but under a different name. A nickname I use to call myself but she never used
2006-12-18 15:27:14 · 24 answers · asked by mike h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, would it matter anyway? Didn't YOU say YOU broke up with her? Aren't you using her? You have nerve even wondering/caring about it since you both are using each other for sex, and then to go and check her phone?? CREEP!! And you let her drive drunk to come have drunk sex with you!
2006-12-18 15:31:39 · answer #1 · answered by kittycatcarrie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you guys are broken up IT ISN'T BEING UNFAITHFUL! There is no relationship and no commitment. You guys are friends with benefits so just be glad you are still getting some from her. If you didn't want her sleeping with other people then you shouldn't have ended the relationship! There is no right to get mad at her in the situation. Flip it around and put yourself in her shoes. If you found a girl you wanted to sleep with wouldn't you do it? Or are you going to tell that girl you can't because you are only sleeping with a girl with which is only an ex-girlfriend? Think about it.
2006-12-18 23:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not necessarily being unfaithful... here are 2 options as to what happened:
1- she was hoping to get some action elsewhere (but nothing happened)
2- she just wanted to feel sexy for the party (I have done this many times, even without the prospect of sleeping with someone)
By the way, if you guys broke up, why would you call it being unfaithful??
2006-12-18 23:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by Negar H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off, you said you broke up with her, so she is your ex. She can not be unfaithful to you, you are not together. As far as the preperations, she was counting on either you calling her, or she calling you, either way, she was counting on hooking up with you that night. The fact that she has your number in her phone clearly means, she is still hung up on you, for the moment anyway. If your only having sex, enjoy it while you can..........
2006-12-18 23:33:06 · answer #4 · answered by lafy tafy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're broken up, right? She's playing you for seconds. Get out there and meet some new women. Bang your ex when it works out for your schedules. It's time to invest in your future.
2006-12-18 23:33:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're paranoid. Confront her and get things out in the open. I put fake names in my cell phone in case I ever lose it. I am in committed relationship and I keep myself 'clean' regardless of whether or not we plan on sleeping together.....you need to communicate!!
2006-12-18 23:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by ladyw900ldriver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but you aren't crazy. Either just move on with your life or accept the fact that she wants it all...cause that's definitely the way it looks.
2006-12-18 23:30:55 · answer #7 · answered by iwantalovableguy23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she had plans to hook up with someone else at this party and it didn't work out so she just used you instead.
2006-12-18 23:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is she being unfaithful if you guys broke up?
I thought you have to be in a committed and understood relationship for 'faith' in one another to exist.
2006-12-18 23:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
shehad her legs shaved AND her vagina huh? well its pretty obvious, especially with the old nickname on the phone trick. you better letter go, if you want give me her number and ill handel it for you
2006-12-18 23:31:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋