Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

2006-12-18 15:54:23 · 8 answers · asked by Tawanakie H 1 in Family

When i started dating my (now) husband. Everyone said this. He's not at all controlling. Why do people say this?

2006-12-18 15:54:09 · 19 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy is my best friend and workmate. I am an Instructional Designer . He is animator on contract. When he left the company he didn't finish his assignments, never reported his status to me (which he is supposed to) and left without proper notice. (immediately). I asked him why he did so, he said he did not promise that he will finish the job and so I have to take his **** because I get higher pay than him!

After a week, he accused me for saying something I never tell. Now he is sending me harassing sms everyday. Recently, he said he wanna lodge a police report that I use his MSN ID to send spams to his friends, which I didn't. He called my boss and told her that I will betray the company's well-being.

I feel so sad and weird why a friend can change overnight. What should I do now?

2006-12-18 15:53:13 · 3 answers · asked by covekitten 2 in Friends

We haven't been going out that long, and its not terribley serious but i want to get something special for her and was wondering if anyone has some ideas...

2006-12-18 15:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 15:51:36 · 14 answers · asked by Roma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend, he loves a girl in ma skool so bad and they have been friends for like 8 months now. The girl just keep talking to him and they flirt with each other on da phone. He finally tells her that he loves her and to his greatest supprise, she has a boy friend but she doesn't like her boyfriend. She likes him but they can't do anything about it b,cos the girls boyfriend loves her even more and he will hurt anybody who tries to take her away from him. So my Friend decides to let her go even though he just can't stop dreaming and thinking bout her.

2006-12-18 15:51:21 · 16 answers · asked by Ladyhils 1 in Singles & Dating

I had dinner and a couple of drinks with someone i met online. I travelled about 1/2 hour drive to meet her. The date went fairly well but when it came to pay she insisted on paying for it since i came a long way. I told her i would and should pay for it but she wasn't going to have it any other way. I'm used to paying so it threw me off alittle. Is this a good sign or a bad sign?

2006-12-18 15:50:56 · 8 answers · asked by woodineye 1 in Singles & Dating

im 18
we were at a friends house
and my bf cousin(boy) was there
my boyfriend wasnt there
and his cousin started flirting with me
and i just started talking to him
then all of a sudden he kisses me
and now everytime he sees me
he tries to kiss me
i dont wanna tell my bf cuz i dont
want to be the reason for them to fight

ive told his cousin to leave me alone but he just wont stop
but why is this guy doing this?
he knows im going out with his cousin(my bf)

why would he do this?

2006-12-18 15:50:50 · 6 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

If we are jealous, does that mean we don't trust them? Why are we jealous, that's what I want to know.

2006-12-18 15:50:31 · 22 answers · asked by mother trucker 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have a curfew of 10PM and I am 18 years old. At first I just disregarded the rule because I thought it was ridiculous considering I'm an adult, but then my parents took the car away (which is legally theirs). I completely understand that because they are allowing me to live in their house and use their car, I should obey the rules. I don't have the money to move out, so how should I explain to my parents that 10PM is....well, f*cked up.

2006-12-18 15:50:18 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

eventhough you have a bf right now and you two are supposed to get married , and theres somone else that you used to date and still have feelings for him and hes locked up how do you let him know that you still whant to be with him?and is it even right to have these feelings?is it worth the try even when hes done bad?

2006-12-18 15:49:27 · 12 answers · asked by chika_cherry_cola007 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been kind of dating this guy for two months, and I am really confused yes, we are sleeping together and we have known each other for two years. Okay I am not sure if we are dating , f##k buddies or what anyways I am trying to figure out what we are. We just went to a christmas party for my company Thursday so we do hang out but anyways I sent him a text today about five hours ago that said " I am starting to like you a little bit but I dont know if thats a good thing" he replied a minute ago (5 hours later) with "Goodnight-your sweet" Okay this is why I hate texting what the hell does that mean. Was that like a thanks pal, or did he like think that was cute that I said that?

2006-12-18 15:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by dontknow 2 in Singles & Dating

I was trying to get my friend and the guy she liked to talk to each other but before i could my other friend told him i was try to do and he said wow she's so hurtin(about the girl that likes him) what does that mean?

2006-12-18 15:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by *Glitta n' Gloss* 2 in Singles & Dating

If you sister or brother in law (your husbands siblings) would get married, would you be related to that person at all? would they still be considered to be a sister or brother in-law even though it isn't a sibling of yours that is getting married?

2006-12-18 15:47:39 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Family

Ok new school?
ok.. im moving from a public to a private school, next year i will be in 9th grade my parents are letting me finish this year but then i have to go to a christian school (valley fellowship) i need ways to make friends and stuff cause i have a feeling they are going to be stuck up even though i am sorta stuck up (ima prep) i dont know what im gunna do HELP!!!!

2006-12-18 15:46:44 · 1 answers · asked by hannah b 2 in Friends

I have recently entered my first year at college and living in the dorms. One quarter has already passed and I found myself not really enjoying the college life. One of the reasons why I do not enjoy the college life so much is because I haven't really made any friends. Are there any tips/guides as to how to attract more people or, in other words, get friends? The problem is that I'm a really timid person. It's hard for me to keep a conversation going and it's even more difficult for me to go up to a person and introduce myself. Thanks!

2006-12-18 15:46:36 · 2 answers · asked by Wonderer 1 in Friends

About 9 months ago I had moved from Arizona to Georgia in hopes of starting a new life for me and my family. I have been married for 9 yrs. When I asked my wife if she thought this would be a good idea she said that I should go and take our two boys first and then she and our daughter would come next. Well a month later they flew back. That only lasted two weeks as she claimed she couldn't get along with my parents. She took my daughter and left our sons and I here. I later found out that during the time I was in Georgia, she had sex with someone she met online numberous times. And that was the real reason she didn't want to be here. For 9 months we hardly talked. She had other relationships as did I. We are still legally married. But now she says she is sorry for what she did and wants to start life again with me. I can truely say that I am over her but I am not over the fact that I have a family. Should I forgive her?

2006-12-18 15:46:02 · 15 answers · asked by dub420 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hypothetically, your idea of the perfect person for you, asks you to do something you normally wouldn't. do you do it? what if coming from their mouth it doesn't seem so bad? if they are your soulmate wouldn't it be bringing out a different side of you, or would they be changing you?

2006-12-18 15:45:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

which one do you like or wear?

2006-12-18 15:45:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf is really really really hot headed when it comes to certen things.my bf had a party at his house and his friend tried to rape me.and i told my bf but i was really scared to because he broke 8 of a guys ribs just because he raised his voice to my bfs lil sister.he is only violent when it comes to a man hurting or yelling at a women. and i told my bf and exspected him to explode.
but i was really suprised because he just stood up gave me a hug and said " that guy must have really hurt you and im sorry for that but as long as im around no one will ever hurt you." and i told him i didnt want him to hurt the guy who tried to rape me and again i exspected him to exsplode and he promised he wouldnt.
is it wrong that i think hes lying ?

2006-12-18 15:45:52 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

I had never met him until last year... is this wrong?

2006-12-18 15:45:27 · 10 answers · asked by Negar H 1 in Friends

i know we really like each other he has written me notes. like telling me i am the best girl he's ever had, remembering the first day we met and thought it was special. he thinks i am amazing. he doesn't care really where we are as long as he's w/ me he tells me.when he kisses me he get this feeling that he doen't want to go way but it does when we stop kissing and he misses it.lik in the note he told he can smell my perfume and so he can't sleep and that another he ca't sleep is cause he can't stop thinking about me and he thinks about all the time.

love nikki,

2006-12-18 15:45:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have let this girl I talk, treat me & my time like it's nothing and I have become a doormat to her.

By now she's only stringing me along, and I have HAD enough, give me tough love everybody, tell me why I SHOULD stop chasing her, & why I should act more like a man!

2006-12-18 15:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sit next to this guy that I talk to somewhat. Today I was sitting in class, doing schoolwork, when all of a sudden, he grabs the bottom of my thigh/top of my knee and pinches it! I just let out a shriek, and the guy in front of me (who saw everything) gave this smile to the other guy. Wtf!? What's up with them both?

2006-12-18 15:44:07 · 6 answers · asked by asdfjkl; 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to his parents' place for christmas. They live in CT, and my flight arrives at LGA in NYC. It's about 40 mins away. But he totaled his car last week so he said he'll get me a shuttle. But his family all live on the same street and they have at least 6 cars. Couldn't he just borrow a car from them to pick me up? Even if it's rush hour, it will be 4 hours, tops. But instead, he asked me to get a shuttle. He's not even gonna show up at the airport. This is my first time to LGA airport and I'm scared but he doesn't think it's a big deal. Girls, would your bf do this to you? or if you are a guy, would you do this to your gf?

2006-12-18 15:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Singles & Dating

not all the kids, but some look at us like we're different or something!!! why is this?/

2006-12-18 15:43:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bofriend called my house and when ever my dad picks up he hangs up, so my dad caught on and started yelling at me so I told my bf to be a man and if he couldn't just ask for me then don't call...that was 3 weeks ago

2006-12-18 15:43:07 · 12 answers · asked by jasmin f 1 in Singles & Dating

He has made it clear to me he has no intentions of making a committment in our relationship. He has told this his daughter very private things about my life. He told her I am divorced because I was in an abusive relationship and was beaten by my ex husband. My adult children do not even know about these things. I wish he had kepts his friggin mouth shut. I am so offended. I told him his adult daughter needed to get a job so she could quit mooching off of everyone else (including him). I feel like they are using my very painful history as a way to gossip and have something to talk about. His daughter spread some pretty vicious rumors about me and I truthfully cannot stand her. She is an immature brat. How should I let this all go?

2006-12-18 15:42:18 · 29 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family

2006-12-18 15:42:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 15:42:15 · 15 answers · asked by Ekjon O 1 in Weddings