I have been kind of dating this guy for two months, and I am really confused yes, we are sleeping together and we have known each other for two years. Okay I am not sure if we are dating , f##k buddies or what anyways I am trying to figure out what we are. We just went to a christmas party for my company Thursday so we do hang out but anyways I sent him a text today about five hours ago that said " I am starting to like you a little bit but I dont know if thats a good thing" he replied a minute ago (5 hours later) with "Goodnight-your sweet" Okay this is why I hate texting what the hell does that mean. Was that like a thanks pal, or did he like think that was cute that I said that?
2006-12-18 15:49:12 · 15 answers · asked by dontknow 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay okay okay...
You've known the guy for years. So you are friends.
You sleep with the guy. So you are friends.
I don't understand why you would text the guy saying "i am starting to like you a bit". How could you possibly think it is a good thing to sleep with a someone (let alone for 2 months) and question whether or not you like them (let alone "a bit").
You know what I think?.....
I think he has the good end of the stick. Don't know how you're gonna dig yourself out of this hole.
All the best to you.
2006-12-18 16:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why people use text messages and emails for the really important stuff. If you are sleeping together, why not tell him then. I have been married for 40 years and if there is one thing I can tell you is that you need to communicate face to face. By seeing a person's eyes, facial expressions and body language, you can find out exactly what you need to know. Please, talk with him in person. You will be better off no matter what the results are. Good luck.
2006-12-18 23:54:42 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, texting is hard because you hide behind the messages. First of all you should not have texted that because you set yourself up. But, he may have felt awkward and could only think of that to say. I would tell him in person -not the phone- and see what his reaction is then. Then you will have your answer.
2006-12-18 23:53:19 · answer #3 · answered by Prickly P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to figure this out too. BUT he didn't just ignore you and then give you a lame excuse tomarrow. Quit worrying. Give it more time and make sure that you two discuss it. Don't make up his mind in your own mind........ Good Luck
2006-12-18 23:54:00 · answer #4 · answered by hudson_floridamale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he mean you're sweet. as in you are sweet for telling him you like him. he doesnt feel the same or either he was under the impression that you both were a steady couple and he thought it was a sweet message. text him or talk to him later asking him how he feels about you
2006-12-18 23:53:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
what the heak, if you think your starting to like him just like now why dont you just stop there and quit your sleeping together thing, thats not liking a bit thats having intimate relations. comon you should know if he whants u or not. the translation means you were good lastnight thanks ill give you a call if i whant more. good luck.
2006-12-18 23:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by chika_cherry_cola007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you have in mind? romance, fling, one night stand, or.... marriage?
seems to me he has not committed to this relationship yet (whatever it is), are you ready?
try this, keep a distance from him for a period of time and see if he cares for you. If he calls, look you up, at least it shows something, else I think it just pure physical relationship.
good luck.
2006-12-18 23:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by ricodzeus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way, you have given this guy the best parts of you and you don't have the nerves to ask him, do he fill anything for you.
2006-12-19 00:12:08 · answer #8 · answered by This is just my opinion! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be forward with him. asked him about what kind of relationship you two have. instead of questioning it all the time. have you told him how you really felt about him? (instead of texting)
2006-12-18 23:56:27 · answer #9 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT SOUND LIKE YOU NEED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT WHAT GOING ON IN THIS REALTIONSHIP, IT REALLY SOUND LIKE
YOU ARE JUST SEX PARTNERS. AND THAT MAY BE NOT
GOOD PLACE TO BE ESPECIALLY SINCE YOU ONLY BEEN
TOGETHER FOR 2 MONTHS. SO TALK TO HIM AND FIND
OUT WHERE THIS IS GOING IF ANY WHERE.
2006-12-18 23:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋