eventhough you have a bf right now and you two are supposed to get married , and theres somone else that you used to date and still have feelings for him and hes locked up how do you let him know that you still whant to be with him?and is it even right to have these feelings?is it worth the try even when hes done bad?
2006-12-18 15:49:27 · 12 answers · asked by chika_cherry_cola007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you'll get over those feelings.
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2006-12-18 15:51:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask yourself this why are you getting married when you're in love with another man,and if you believe it will pass why on earth open a can of worms by telling the other man,he's locked up anyways and you might ruin a good thing you got now,sure we all get those feelings sometimes,wait it out though at least see how you feel in a while,and don't get married loving another man it's not fair to your new husband would you want him marrying you loving his ex girlfriend and wanting to let her know this so it can do what? Exactly lead to something,so,man leave the past alone focus on now
2006-12-18 15:54:50 · answer #2 · answered by Camy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're getting married, I know it's hard to forget about someone you love, impossible actually, but if you're planning to get married, I would make sure that your bf is 'the one' and not just a guy you really like.
It doesn't matter where the other guy is, if you love him, you have to sort it out, before you have a family with ths bf of yours.
2006-12-18 15:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tonks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sound really young. Don't get married. Your too young, and obviously are not sure about it. But... I think you should also forget the prisoner. It sounds like lust...tell him to look you up when he gets out, you'll do it a couple times till you realize his future looks allot like his past....then you can move on to totally different guys....you have sooooo much time. In a while you'll realize there are sooo many hot guys!!! Take your time.
2006-12-18 16:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by 123..WAIT! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only guy you should have feelings for is your boyfriend or fiance if you're engaged. Your ex is an ex for a reason. And you're supposed to be married to your current boyfriend it's wrong to still have feelings for your ex. I suggest you get rid of the feelings for your ex before you walk down the isle, or your marriage won't last.
2006-12-18 15:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well see i have been through this so many times.i like this guy and then i was over him and he liked me.and then now i have a bf.but sometimes i still think about the old guy and i still want to go back with him andwell i did i told him and deep inside he still has feelings for me to.cuz if u didnt knoe this then well wen u like someone and u were together with that someone then of course u will still have at least a couple feelings for that person u jus cant 4get about it u knoe?
2006-12-18 15:53:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently got off a relationship which he's afraid to hold my hand in public and doesn't acknowledge our relationship. I never pressured him, tried my best to make it work by being understanding.. in the end, he left me, saying that he felt pressured and not ready to commit and lotsa of excuses... i've learned that, if someone can't love you and be proud of it, there's no point hanging on...... Save your heart for someone else, someone who's worth it.
2016-05-23 06:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to decide if you want your current boyfriend or your ex first, if you decide you want your ex you need to leave your current boyfriend before things get any more serious. just because someone has been to jail doesnt make them a bad person. the important thing is if you think he is a bad person... the problem with relationships is that no one else can no whats the right thing for you.
2006-12-18 16:06:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
put off the wedding till you know where your heart really lies or you will end up being unhappy and making your partner unhappy . come on now marriage is for life and if your not sure dont enter into it.
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2006-12-18 15:53:44 · answer #9 · answered by PETER J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell when i was locked up my ex got married then came and told me how she felt cuz then nuttin would happen. i still love her and wanna be w her but she happy for the most part, and i think its cuz she told me she still had feelins for me. tell ur boytoy bout them and tell him u want his support in tellin ur ex that u still like him but wanna be with ur current boy toy
2006-12-18 15:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by diesel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would never happens to me... as u said, we are suppossed to get married so why would i still want to make something to be our love stopper???
2006-12-18 15:51:58 · answer #11 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋