My bofriend called my house and when ever my dad picks up he hangs up, so my dad caught on and started yelling at me so I told my bf to be a man and if he couldn't just ask for me then don't call...that was 3 weeks ago
2006-12-18 15:43:07 · 12 answers · asked by jasmin f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're not the one who did something wrong here. Yes I do believe that you should have spoken to your boyfriend as appose to yelling at him, but I can understand your frustration. You boyfriend however should not be hanging the phone up on your dad, because that is rude, if he's scared of your dad then that will only make it worst because now your dad knows that he's been hanging up on him. if I were you, I'd be glad he hasn't called, you can do better than that, you need a guy that's not so immature, even if he were upset at the way/ or what you said he still should have spoke to you about...instead of not calling you all this time. From what it looks like your relationship is over-so move on and make yourself available for a great guy that will respect you and your dad!
2006-12-19 01:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously, he felt that he was being as much man as he could be, which wasn't very much. You may have said it in a different, and less threatening ( to his manhood) way, but you were right in your intent.
I can understand you're dad's anger at the guy just hanging up on him. That was so rude! If I were your dad, I'd make sure the t*rd never got to see you again!
2006-12-18 23:48:42 · answer #2 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You where so right your dad will always give you a hard time unless your man steps up to the plate and asks for you when he calls your bf must grow up and learn the ropes so be straight and if he does not want to then he truly does not want to be with you someone who wants to be with you will go through anything to be with you even if it means your parents.
2006-12-18 23:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, you didn't do anything wrong in my book. Looks like your boyfriend is terrified of your dad. He may feel guilty about something that he has done with your or something and afraid your dad might find out. If he hasn't called in three weeks he may not be the guy for you.
2006-12-18 23:47:31 · answer #4 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe you were in the wrong here. If the person you are dating isn't comfortable asking for you over the phone, he probably isn't going to be comfortable being with you in public. Makes for some very tense situations. Sounds like he needs to mature a bit more.
2006-12-18 23:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Jody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he stop calling?
Of course not! If you're old enough to be dating, you're old enough to be a woman! Why waste time on a guy who's too chicken to ask for you on the phone? Confidence is WAY hotter than cowardice.
PLUS You want a boyfriend who can get along with your parents. TRUST ME! They don't have to love him, but there's no way you're parents will like a guy who's afraid of them. That lets them know they should suspect him of something!
2006-12-18 23:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by drutheta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you certainly did nothing wrong. That was very rude of your boyfriend to just hang up on your dad like that. He sounds very immature to me and l think that you are better off without him. Better luck with your next boyfriend. Merry Xmas to you
2006-12-18 23:47:33 · answer #7 · answered by kazzadanni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he hasnt called you in 3 weeks obviously hes a "CHILD" you dont need to be with someone like that.... thats definatly selfish of him... If hes going to be with you he needs to get along with you and your family!!!!!!! Find someone that respects your family!!
Good Luck
2006-12-18 23:46:52 · answer #8 · answered by giggels22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you didn't. You don't want to be with a boy who can't even speak to your father. What kind of future is in that?
This boy not worth your time of day. you young keep looking.
2006-12-18 23:51:14 · answer #9 · answered by annetm2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU DID NOTHING WRONG, HE DID, HE SHOULD BE A MAN
IF HE WANT TO TALK TO YOU, THEN DOT HE RIGHT THING
AND NOT HANG UP, WHY DID HE DO THAT ANY WAY.
2006-12-18 23:46:51 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋