When i started dating my (now) husband. Everyone said this. He's not at all controlling. Why do people say this?
2006-12-18 15:54:09 · 19 answers · asked by Contessa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because its a stereotype that they thought would make you not want to be with him.
2006-12-18 15:56:44 · answer #1 · answered by HA! 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because we, Latins, Hispanics, have this famous thing of the Latin "Macho" Isn't exactly that is that we are kind more open to express our selves and in the same way we like to express our love we do also express our jealousy, and may be taken as we are controlling, but not the truth. We have changed a lot during the years, about 40, 50 or so Latin men were way up more controlling than now a days ones. So enjoy.
2006-12-18 16:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
controlling guys don't fall under the category of nationality. It's within the personality. It doesn't matter what race or nationality he is or what culture. Part of controlling may be the up bringing, or people just tend to develop it themselves.
2006-12-18 15:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because alot of our cultures guys do controll and than they start to hit.That they are just surprise that you found like one an hundred that hasn't try to controll you or hit you.That you have a man that loves you and want to be there for you.
2006-12-18 16:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by hclover21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am half Puerto rican and am very easy going..I hate being controlled and likewise hate to controll..Saying that all Hispanic males are controlling, great lovers wife beaters, is nothing more then bad stero typing.
2006-12-18 15:56:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know several friends who are married to spanish men. They all say the men are controlling. I guess any man can be that way though, regardless of where he is from. I hate that quality in a man.
2006-12-18 15:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by I know, I know!!!! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What man isn't controlling? Or at least, wants to be controlling? They all do it, even if in different ways. It's a 'man thing.'
2006-12-18 15:58:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't matter what race, you will find a controlling guy in all of them. All guys are different. o and people say it because it's a stereotype. ignore it.
2006-12-18 16:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by xxdelicious_l1psxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a stereotype, hon. Like that Latinos are passionate and jealous and controlling....etc. It's not true for all, as you may know.
2006-12-18 15:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Prickly P 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard of many being this way. It can be derived from
his background culture. If it doesn't work for you, you really
should have figured this out before you married this person.
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2006-12-18 15:57:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
latins and hispanics and spanish are a little more attached and controlling but also more passionate
2006-12-18 15:57:05 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋