my bf is really really really hot headed when it comes to certen things.my bf had a party at his house and his friend tried to rape me.and i told my bf but i was really scared to because he broke 8 of a guys ribs just because he raised his voice to my bfs lil sister.he is only violent when it comes to a man hurting or yelling at a women. and i told my bf and exspected him to explode.
but i was really suprised because he just stood up gave me a hug and said " that guy must have really hurt you and im sorry for that but as long as im around no one will ever hurt you." and i told him i didnt want him to hurt the guy who tried to rape me and again i exspected him to exsplode and he promised he wouldnt.
is it wrong that i think hes lying ?
2006-12-18 15:45:52 · 8 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, I hope you're OK, and I'm glad that that pervert didn't succeed in raping you. You should see a counselor to help you talk about how you feel about what happened to you.
Second, your boyfriend sounds like a really good man, who is very protective of the women in his life (including you).
Your man responded with an amazing degree of maturity and sensitivity to you telling him that one of his friends tried to rape you - he didn't focus on beating up the guy to get revenge, he hugged you, told you he was sorry that guy had hurt you and promised to protect you. He also respected your wishes to not hurt the guy who tried to rape you.
Your boyfriend is a great guy - you are very lucky to have a man like that! He handled this situation just right and I'm sure he'll keep his promise that no man will ever hurt you while he's around!
2006-12-18 15:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isnt wrong. he is giving you mixed signals but if this guy is his friend and he obviously has a lot of goooood feelings for you, then he is torn. He also doesnt want to do anything drastic in this situation to hurt you anymore, know what I mean. He seems to be very considerate of your feelings and im sure he never wants you to get hurt!!!
2006-12-18 23:48:30 · answer #2 · answered by lovee♡ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is probably just natural, it is not ur fault that u consider the past in these kinds of things... mayb he has tured over a new leaf and i think that you should let go of his violent past
2006-12-18 23:51:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lucky#11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD TALK TO HIM ABOUT WHAT GOING ON, IF HE
HOT HEADED AS YOU STATED THEN WHY HAS HE NOT
SAID SOMETHING ABOUT WHAT ALMOST HAPPEN TO YOU.,
I WOULD SEE ABOUT THIS. AND FOR THE PERSON THAT
DID THIS TO YOU, NEED TO REPORT HIM TO THE POLICE.
2006-12-18 23:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope he is --- no one should attempt rape and get away with it ---- can the police do anything to the guy that tried???
2006-12-18 23:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not wrong at all...if anything he SHOULD explode because that guy is messing with your dignity your morals!! your life....
2006-12-18 23:48:24 · answer #6 · answered by Aquarius-Monkey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah
2006-12-18 23:48:32 · answer #7 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you have to ask
2006-12-18 23:48:51 · answer #8 · answered by underlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋