I have let this girl I talk, treat me & my time like it's nothing and I have become a doormat to her.
By now she's only stringing me along, and I have HAD enough, give me tough love everybody, tell me why I SHOULD stop chasing her, & why I should act more like a man!
2006-12-18 15:44:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because if you don't act like a man she'll keep treating you like a doormat. That's no fun I'm sure. Soon enough, other people will be convinced that you're a doormat. Moreover, the time you're wasting being her dormat you could be spending with some other girl much more pleasant girl.
If you keep chasing this one the other girls can't be interested in you because they see you're a wuss and not worth their attention. Because guys who are being trated like that become even more unpopular.
Ignore that mean girl from now on, do yourself a favor. Erase her number from your phone - that's very satisfying, I tell you. Never call her, act as if you hardly know her. She is in the past.
2006-12-18 15:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Snowflake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, you are a person, not a doormat. And the reason you let her do that is because you are getting use to it. And your afraid that you might not find another girl like her. Truth be told.....there are plenty of other girls out there. Blow her off. Honestly you might be able to put the shoe on the other foot. If you blow her off. She might become intrigued. And then you can exact your revenge...or just find someone better for you...good luck
2006-12-18 23:49:58 · answer #2 · answered by dub420 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALAS, you just answered your own question. You should stop chasing her because it is turning the image of your man hood, into a door mat, & that is not just for now, but for future references as well. You need to cut her loose, & step up to the bat, & swing it out of the park, dust yourself off after skidding across home plate, & move on.
2006-12-18 23:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you should be a man. people only do what you allow them to do. and when you stand up for yourself she will either respect you or leave you and if she was using you as a doormat then you need to let her go
2006-12-18 23:47:15 · answer #4 · answered by jumiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are going to treat you how you let them treat you. Only you can stop this pattern.
2006-12-19 00:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by proudmama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLAP! Is that better? Or would you prefer an kick in the nuts??
2006-12-18 23:53:54 · answer #6 · answered by moobiemuffin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dump he r u looser
2006-12-18 23:46:49 · answer #7 · answered by MoNiCa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋