Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

ok. very strange question. Someone who has skillz in manipulation/relating to others/caring for others etc. Whats a brief good step by step guide to getting people to really like you. or just a few pointers.
(no-one get all angry, just relax.)

2006-12-18 16:11:57 · 5 answers · asked by errr 2 in Friends

When a guy says he would love you if he was single what does it mean?
i was dating a guy for a while we both were very physically attracted to one another and things broke up as i was upset about my job etc a little needy at the time...he always stares at me when we are out and the other day i apoligised to him and he said i was one of the most lovely people he had met and that initially he was intimidated by my job ( i have quite a high powered job and earn good money) he also said he thought i was gorgeous back then and still does, i said i was leaving and he kept on grabbing me and said he would love me...if he was single..When i chatted about one of my ex boyfriends he got jealous and said 'what about us?'. He has only just started to date someone else..i have always been infatuated with him and vice versa..what should i do should i ask him for a drink as friends, i think he could of beena potential one

2006-12-18 16:11:16 · 13 answers · asked by eli g 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in the cheersquad but my firend hates cheerlaeders she has not been talking to me should I drop out,I have not been sitting next to the cheerleaders. no madder how much they Ask me to I don't!

2006-12-18 16:11:06 · 9 answers · asked by Reychel V 2 in Friends

My friend met a guy one week before he was to get married. During that week, she explained that they talked each day and they feel in love... On the night before his wedding, he was @ her home and explained to her that he was not ready BUT because everything had been planned, he had go on with it. On the day of his wedding, he called her from the church to say hello and that he was about to do it. About 2 hours later he called and said that he was @ the reception and would be by later. Since the wedding which was in September - he has left his wife and is now living with my friend.. She says that it is not her fault because he and his wife were having problems before. I explained that it still does not make it right.. HE IS MARRIED and until he divorces, she is still making matters worse by staying with him..

She says they are in love and that out of all the men she has dated, he is the one that she wants to spend her life with.. Is this love or lust... What should she do?

2006-12-18 16:10:20 · 15 answers · asked by KeraniBai 3 in Singles & Dating

ok, so, i'm, se venteen, and am in a russian III class which is 7 students (me + 6 girls, all of us are the same age). There is this one girl, with which i was not the best of friends with in the last two years of russian class, but recently she's been notably softer towards me..for example, wen we happen to walk to class side by side she doesnt keep quiet anymore and usually starts up a conversation... we shared a moment in which i looked up from my quiz/test and she was smiling right at me. I then preceeded to smile, not knowing wat to expect...and we stared at each other for a moment or so before finishing our tests and going our separate ways.......
does this mean that the girl who was once an "ice queen" to me is basically melting? could you help me out here, because i feel like im left at a cliffhanger with no clue of what to do......

2006-12-18 16:09:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am his 13-year-old sister and he tells me he doesnt know what he wants but i am getting desperate here! He isn't into sports and doesnt have hobbies.

2006-12-18 16:09:22 · 7 answers · asked by KJK 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 16:08:06 · 30 answers · asked by joe g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 16:06:14 · 21 answers · asked by Sublette 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was thinking a massage or a gift certificate for a movie. Any suggestions?

2006-12-18 16:04:53 · 12 answers · asked by angelk 3 in Marriage & Divorce

So if you and a friend got locked in to a store, by mistake and had to spend the whole night in the store. What kind of store would you "LOVE" to get locked in.

2006-12-18 16:04:45 · 21 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6 in Friends

I have work tomorrow,,,,,,,,,, but I love all my yahoo friends, I really do, lets all get some rest,,,,,,see you in the morning, OK? (it's 12:00 am where I live)

2006-12-18 16:04:41 · 13 answers · asked by 9888khgd6 2 in Friends

Just a month ago everythin was alright but then all of a sudden I dnt know what happened to him he just left talking n now he hates me. I tried a lot to forget him but I couldnt I dnt know what to do?

2006-12-18 16:04:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't know what he left. I have to face my mom to find out. She has never been kind to me, i only wish she would tell me why. I would like to go about this will love and kindness. I doubt she will accept kindness. What should I do. I've never had to deal with death and wills.

2006-12-18 16:03:42 · 20 answers · asked by red 1 in Family

2006-12-18 16:02:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

im 18
i know im still to young
but when is the right time??

my bf wants to get married like in 2-3 years


what is a good age to get married?

2006-12-18 16:02:21 · 33 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Friends

2006-12-18 16:02:21 · 7 answers · asked by Ani K 1 in Friends

Most recently my husband has decided to leave his cell phone in his car when he comes home after work now a few weeks ago after we had twins I thought it was just me over reacting when his ex wife called and he lied to me and said it was one of his male friends,but now I have serious doubts because we both have our own cell phones and I never bothered his and he doesnt bother mine even if they are ringing we still never bother eachothers cell phones So I guess my question is am I over reacting still or could the father of my 3 1/2 week old twins be cheating?

2006-12-18 16:01:48 · 42 answers · asked by CaliMa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner of 3 years has been lieing to me and breaking important promises, it may sound pathetic but i dont trust him anymore and it hurts because i love him greatly. any advice on how to rebuild trust or get over it would be greatly appreciated!!

2006-12-18 16:01:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 18
i know im still to young
but when is the right time??

my bf wants to get married like in 2-3 years


what is a good age to get married?

2006-12-18 16:01:11 · 17 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Singles & Dating

She just broke up with her boyfriend of about 5 years, if not more. Shes moved back home and I feel really bad for her. This is her first boyfriend and first breakup. Shes 29 yrs old and shes thinking about her future or lack of. Which i dont think is an issue as she is a great, beautiful person and im positive she's going to find someone who is 10 times better than her ex. I've never been in a relationship myself so im kinda lacking in advice. And I dont know we are just not very open emotionally to each other. I feel bad like im ignoring the issue because nothing has really been said about it. I cant tell if she wants to talk about it (its only been 2 days). Any advice or help or anythign would be really helpful. Thanks for reading all this too.

2006-12-18 16:00:55 · 5 answers · asked by missy28 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

women generally look to the kiss as an indicator of a man's ability as a potential lover...do men see it the same way? to women the good kiss is a must..in order for true chemistry to develope between partners.... tell me what you guys think...and if you have any tips for the ladies.

2006-12-18 16:00:38 · 12 answers · asked by luckmess 2 in Singles & Dating

Five years ago I had my daughter. I am now married with another child. Recently my first "baby's daddy" came around wanting to see our daughter. While we were talking, his phone rang and he said he was "hangin with my baby mama." I asked him, is that all I am? Baby's mama? No name? He said people know my name but my status is "baby's mama." Is that good or bad? Is baby's momma the same as ho or slut? Does a baby's mama take precidence over a current girlfriend? Are we respected or just put up with? Do your friends respect us, or are we fair game? Guys, help me out! And no sarcasm please.

2006-12-18 15:59:36 · 2 answers · asked by ailat21 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 15:59:22 · 3 answers · asked by az_ zoo 2 in Friends

Well, Hi everyone!

I am actually going to talk with a girl tommarow, that I really like, and I really want to impress her and my question is does hair style really matter when getting a girl?

Thank you !

2006-12-18 15:57:56 · 4 answers · asked by Tim Loves you All! 1 in Singles & Dating

I have let a girl I talk to not appreciate my time, cancel dates, have me chase her, but in reality she's just s hitting all over me.

Tell HOW much I'm wasting my time, TELL ME to MOVE on, I really need TOUGH LOVE, give it to me!

2006-12-18 15:57:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm still deeply in love with my ex, she pretty much broke my heart on 2 separate occasions. She has not been the most honest or the best girlfriend in the world but I do love her. I still dont know the complete reason for the break up except she did say that her feelings changed and other mumbo jumbo she went onto to say that she doesnt deserve me and all this other stuff.. What can I or what should I do I cant get her out of my head and truly believe she's the one....

2006-12-18 15:57:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm VERY POPULAR and I need About 60+ Presents for kids at school. And I only have $20

2006-12-18 15:57:30 · 5 answers · asked by Erik 3 in Friends

she's not my gf yet, i like her very much, also if ur kind enuf, plz advice me best ways to tell her tat i like her too. i'll b very appreciate for all urs help

2006-12-18 15:56:37 · 16 answers · asked by Mr Quite OK 3 in Singles & Dating

violated my home, broke my things and attacked me..or should I take the high road..through karma? Legally, I have a right but because they are family I wonder if it's worth it? Help me or better yet what would you do?

2006-12-18 15:56:29 · 31 answers · asked by KeraniBai 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 15:54:31 · 26 answers · asked by swati 1 in Singles & Dating