Why Has My Husband All Of A Sudden????????

Question

Most recently my husband has decided to leave his cell phone in his car when he comes home after work now a few weeks ago after we had twins I thought it was just me over reacting when his ex wife called and he lied to me and said it was one of his male friends,but now I have serious doubts because we both have our own cell phones and I never bothered his and he doesnt bother mine even if they are ringing we still never bother eachothers cell phones So I guess my question is am I over reacting still or could the father of my 3 1/2 week old twins be cheating?

Answer 1

Hey'first i wanna cogratulate for twin kids, iam a man and married,what i wanna say relationship is a long journey and its hard 2find some exactly u want BUT u can make him the way u want,follow ma principles
1. calm down control uself remove angry REMOVE PAIN IN UR CHEST BE LIKE A BABY DONT OVEREACT
2.study him even if u lived longer enough
3.man we are very stupid once u know that be wise
4.what situation made him 2 contact her,find out
5.Tell him that he is ur man and if some one is after him he is looking 4 trouble and he is not goingno where.
6.Ask him if he found OUT that u have been talking to ur EXS how does he going 2 fill?
7.TELL HIM U LOVE HIM AND AND HIS KIDS,U WANT THE BEST FOR THEM AS A YOUNG MOTHER U WILL PROTECT THE FAMILY.tELL HIM U DREAM OF GETTING OLD WITH HIM AND ONE DAY 2C GRAND CHILDREN TOGETHER AS GRAND PARENTS
8.U BELIEVE IN GOD PRAY FOR HIM HOLD HIS HAND AND TOUCH UR KIDS AND PRAY WHEN HE IS THERE MAKE BEHAVIOUR DONT FILL SHY IN FRONT OF HIM,IS UR FAMILY .
9 OBSERVE RESULT REPEAT

Answer 2

When I was pregnant I was so Insecure that I cried If we didn't have Ice cream In the refrigerator. Suspecting my boyfriend of looking at another woman on the highway driving 70 miles an hour Is what he had to deal with....daily! Oh It was crazy I was so miserable. Once I delivered everything went back to normal. But If you still believe something Is wrong, It may be. Statistics say that 85% of woman who do feel their lover Is cheating Is right. Watch for signs: sudden Interest In time away from home, Cell phone calls are not returned In a timely fashion, leaves the house or room to talk on the phone, starts doing their own laundry, often distrscted or daydreaming. Good luck and god bless

Answer 3

It is possible because anything is possible. Ask him why he lied to you about his ex wife calling. It is also possible that he is not cheating. He may leave the phone in the car to not disturb either one of you. With twins that are three weeks old you need your rest, the babies need their rest, I am sure he is extra tired. Also, I know when you have a baby your hormone levels are out of whack and people get extra emotional so maybe you are just reading into the situation. I wouldn't stress out just yet. Just come right out and ask him and see what he says. At least then you will know some answers and can try to come to a conclusion about things.... Congratulations on your babies!

Answer 4

Sorry to say....One thing I have learned is......if you have a feeling that something is going on....then there is something going on!
Have you asked him why he is leaving his cell phone in the car? How do you know it was his x that called? Did you check his phone? Did you confront him about it? I would talk to him and tell him that even if there isn't anything going on.....then he must take a look at what you have witnessed lately and see where you might come to those conclusions. I would def. think it was suspicious!

Answer 5

Hire a private eye to follow him and then you will know
Since you obviously do not want to ask him!
You asked us now ask him and make him prove it- explain to him that it bothers you- the phone just could be because he does not want to disturb the kids- the ex wife thing could be for another reason does not always mean cheating but there are always reasons behind everything.

Answer 6

Does the phone usually ring a lot? If it does he might actually be being considerate. It sounds like he might not want to wake the babies and that he probably wants uninterrupted time with his new family......

Now, what do you really think is going on. Is he being considerate and loving or distant. How much exed is his ex? Do they have kids together? Have you had sex since the babies were born? You have to go by instinct but it doesn't hurt to check up on him either.

Answer 7

Could be. A common behavior of cheaters is to become absolutely paranoid that you'll find out. Some guys go so far as to become obsessed with the idea that YOU'RE cheating.
If he's hiding his cell phone, then it's clear he doesn't want you to pick up when SOMEONE calls.
If he's innocently in contact with his ex-wife and doesn't want you to know... well, i don't know anything about your relationship with his ex, so I can't help you there.

Answer 8

It is possible, however he has just recently had twins himself and there is a lot on his mind as well. Just talk to your husband about it. I do mean talk. If he gets mad and starts to yell then say you are right it is foolish for me to think that. A few days later go back and ask him the same question, but keep your cool and ask with out fighting and his reactions should tell you everything.

Good luck

Answer 9

follow your intuition, is is never wrong. he is hiding his cell ph for some reason, theres something on that cell ph he doesn't want u to see. i would be worried about that, looks as if he may be cheating, why would he lie about the ex wife calling if there wasn't something there, he is probably cheating on u with her. no u are not overreacting, and u have been given good reason to question this. even if u confronted him, would u get an honest answer? doubt it.

Answer 10

I don't know - that's not much evidence to base a serious accusation on.

Heck, I started leaving my cell phone in my car about six months ago so that it would charge overnight. I wonder if I'm having an affair with my ex!!!???!!! Oh, no...wait...I don't have an ex.

So, see? It could be something perfectly explanable.