Five years ago I had my daughter. I am now married with another child. Recently my first "baby's daddy" came around wanting to see our daughter. While we were talking, his phone rang and he said he was "hangin with my baby mama." I asked him, is that all I am? Baby's mama? No name? He said people know my name but my status is "baby's mama." Is that good or bad? Is baby's momma the same as ho or slut? Does a baby's mama take precidence over a current girlfriend? Are we respected or just put up with? Do your friends respect us, or are we fair game? Guys, help me out! And no sarcasm please.
2006-12-18 15:59:36 · 2 answers · asked by ailat21 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By the way he vaguely described it, I'm not just someone he knocked up. I get the feeling that he would choose to hang out with me and our daughter than with the guys or some chicks. I was just wondering how other guys view us.
2006-12-18 16:56:52 · update #1
depends how he said it. if it was said with not passion then you basicaly just a ho in his eyes...i have hurt many of my sex say babys mama and oftin its said lovingly but not always...it just depends on the tone
if it was me and i was not with the lass i would still knock the crap out of any guy that did not treat her well...reasion being that if she is hurt then my baby could possiably see the hurt scaring my baby and thus guy that hurt babys mama would get hurt for scaring my baby.
2006-12-18 16:32:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you are taking too much offense to it. I find that in some situations at some times it is easier to refer to the other parent as the dad or the mum instead of the first name. Like "name" is going to her dad's house tonight instead of "name" is going to "dadname" tonight.
Y' know?
I would relax ..start using the term toward him as well..he might chagne his tune.
But personally I dont see much to be offended about.
2006-12-19 06:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by timberleigh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋