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ok. very strange question. Someone who has skillz in manipulation/relating to others/caring for others etc. Whats a brief good step by step guide to getting people to really like you. or just a few pointers.
(no-one get all angry, just relax.)

2006-12-18 16:11:57 · 5 answers · asked by errr 2 in Family & Relationships Friends

5 answers

be yourself(no1 likes a fake)
and if yourself is wierd then tweak up a little bit
wear fashionable clothes
wear your hair in a good stile

2006-12-18 16:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by hannah b 2 · 0 0

Tips on winning friends and influencing people :-)
Become A Friendlier Person
1.Don’t criticize, condemn or complain.
2.Give honest, sincere appreciation.
3.Arouse in the other person an eager want.
4.Become genuinely interested in other people.
5.Smile :-)
6.Remember that a person’s name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
7.Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
8.Talk in terms of the other person’s interests.
9.Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.
Win People To Your Way Of Thinking
1.The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
2.Show respect for the other person’s opinion. Never say, “you’re wrong.”
3.If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
4.Begin in a friendly way.
5.Get the other person saying “yes, yes” immediately.
6.Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
7.Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers.
8.Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.
9.Be sympathetic with the other person’s ideas and desires.
10.Throw down a challenge.

2006-12-19 02:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by TK 4 · 0 0

- Be sincere when speaking. People will be able to tell whether you're fake or not.
- When another is speaking, never interrupt.
- Smile. Always.
- Never suddenly poke yourself in a clique.
- Show concern.
- Say hi to them. A simple 'hello' in the morning daily will be good.
- Don't gossip about others.
- Never shout to be in the limelight. People will think you're just a stupid show off.
- If someone confides in you, DO listen. Relate to them and try to solve their problems. Don't keep on saying "I understand, really." That's not true. If you can't think of anything to respond, pat them on the shoulder. If they want a hug, give them a hug.

2006-12-19 05:49:48 · answer #3 · answered by tempo_tranquillo 2 · 0 0

ok there's no really big secret or class to take on getting friends. It's all with in yourself. what kinda person you are. what you like, what you care about, what are your morals. It'll set the right page for you to stand on when it comes to finding the right group of people to fit in with. Don't act like out of your self, don't do stuff you normally wouldn't. now meeting people. Online there's random chat sites to go on. Myspace, Yahoo 360, IMVU, Bebo, and much more, these sites make it easy to set yourself up to meeting new people. most active is myspace, and the most out there, and I mean really out there outa state and outa country is IMVU. myspace you set up a page and meet people that can find you, or you can surf and find others willing to meet you. IMVU meeting people is easy, it's basically a 3D chating place. Dress your avitar the way you want him to dress, be yourself, and talk to people, you'll meet sooo many people, some from Japan, Aulstrila, UK where ever. many people you can met on there. ok there's your source's to get started on. Just be yourself, don't give up on a site cuz of an *** say's crap to you, cuz there will be soo many others you won't be able to meet that would love to meet you. need help just add me to your yahoo, msn, myspace IM. I have all three IM's. I'm mostly on myspace IM though. ok well hit me up some time, I wanna see how your friendship search is doing.

2006-12-19 00:27:20 · answer #4 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0 0

be nice and caring, always be there to help, be sincere, always smile, be a person that is good to hang around with, be funny, put another person first than yourself.

2006-12-19 00:22:47 · answer #5 · answered by affle 2 · 0 0

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