Just a month ago everythin was alright but then all of a sudden I dnt know what happened to him he just left talking n now he hates me. I tried a lot to forget him but I couldnt I dnt know what to do?
2006-12-18 16:04:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel the pain. There is no greater pain than to loose someone you love; but the question is - do you love yourself? If you do, do the things that make you happy. Hang out with your old friends - talk to them. Meet new people - or if you're not ready - volunteer. Helping others make you feel better. Better yet, go to church - there is much love and healing there.
God bless!
2006-12-18 16:14:32 · answer #1 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When i get dumped, which happens all the time, I try to figure out if i am hurt because i will miss her and miss being with her, or if i just feel like my pride was damaged and wonder if there's something wrong with me.
The first one is easier because there are a million other people out there.
The second one is harder, because there is only one "you".
But you have a lot more control over yourself. Be good to yourself, and you'll find someone better. People like people who like themselves and seem strong.
Either way, it will take time to get over it, but soon it will just seem strange that you even cared about the person, and it will seem like ancient history.
2006-12-18 16:12:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can hep yourself. I think you should stop crying over the door which has shut on you. Look for the doors which are open. Its just a relationship that has ended. Not the whole world. Cheer up!
2006-12-18 16:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you gotta put yourself first. Do the things you have been wanting to do. Enjoy being able to do whatever you want to do with out worring about how he is gonna feel. Go on a vacation. Be happy!
2006-12-18 16:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by get fuzzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT JUST TAKE TIME TO GET OVER SOMEONE THAT YOU
CARED FOR, BUT IF YOU CAN JUST LET THE PERSON
KNOW HOW YOU FEEL SO THAT YOU CAN GET THE CLOSURE THAT YOU NEED. THOUGH A LETTER, ETC.
THEN YOU CAN MOVE ON. BUT UNTIL YOU GET WHAT
YOU NEED OUT OF THIS YOU WILL ALL FEEL THIS WAY.
2006-12-18 16:11:43 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a loser and a jerk on top of that...you can do a lot better...get out and have fun...the best revenge is living well
2006-12-18 16:09:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋