Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

I find that the American guys are emotionally distant, not romantic, very egoistic in bed and superficial. What do they look for in a woman? Cheap sex? Food? What?

2006-12-18 14:56:31 · 8 answers · asked by NONE 1 in Singles & Dating

to your ex in an email to start a convorsation

2006-12-18 14:56:25 · 5 answers · asked by emma 3 in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend of 6yrs is married with children. Same ages as mine. She would call my hubby cutie names n come over n tight closes etc. "The big come on" It didn't bother me cause we were tight like that and I trust my husband. Her husband is just like me "talkative"n Mine just like her"passive". She would constantly say things like- "you need to be with mine and I need to be with yours". One day she came across her husbands cell bill wit my number on it "not unusual" we talked n emailed each other all the time. She accused us of cheating, totally not true! She n her husband cheated on each other constantly. I think she thought I would tell her business to her husband, but I wouldn't do that. Well, since she has accused him so much. He now has changed his # n password protected it, n calls me all the time 2 talk. He knows I talk to him, but the phonecalls are too good to give up, being that my husband isn't talker. She calls my husband trying to convenice him. He doesn't buy it.

2006-12-18 14:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by ICanBeWithoutYou 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I Gues, " just want to kill myself. Why not? It's not going to get better." was a bit extreme but you know what I mean. Some of you read my story earlier. I can't move home because home was Gulfport which is no more after Katrina. I am stuck stuck stuck. I am miserable very miserable. I moved here with my husband four years ago. We have been married 9 years. He moved out after becoming involved with another woman. We have three kids 2,5 and 8.
It is hard because 1) this is his hometown. Mine is 1200 miles away. 2) He moved out but only three blocks away. 3) He is active in the community so I have to see his name in the newspaper all of the time 4) I soon realized that all of my friends are his friends or their wives and they seem to have no problem with his infidelity and moving out ( they have him and the girlfriend over for dinner, etc.) His parents are loving but it is hard to see them. ANy ideas of how to get apositive outlook here.

2006-12-18 14:55:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i know its because they are marking their territory. but what if they give you one were they cant be seen. my boyfriend gave me one and last night he said i better not see anymore when he gets back. and he made it reder. and i asked him about it today and he said it was a joke and he said i can have as many as i want. do you think he was really saying that i could or do you think it was more of a dare?

2006-12-18 14:55:03 · 9 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1 in Singles & Dating

okay so about 10 weeks ago i found out my bf cheated on me with his ex.......he said hed felt horrible and started crying....but now weve had sex 4 or 5 times since then because i hold out on him......he doesnt look at me or even kiss me anymore while having sex......i feel so cheap when i have sex with him because of that.....what do you think is he still cheating??

2006-12-18 14:54:59 · 17 answers · asked by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

how many peple (girls and guys) actually look at the inside of a person (their feelings) and not the outside (their body)?

2006-12-18 14:54:20 · 14 answers · asked by Juan M 1 in Singles & Dating

everything seems almost perfect with this guy i am seeing but right now hes not ready for a relationship. but the thing about it is we already do what people do in a relationship

2006-12-18 14:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by leigha w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This friend of mine is friends with this guy in my grade. There was this big secret that no one would tell me for like 3 weeks. (Yeah it went on THAT long). Well I started getting mad cause everyone was being told it but me. The thing is that I was getting mad at (We'll just call him "G"). I was getting mad at "G" cause he was telling everyone but me but that's only cause the secret was about me. He told Sarah that he liked me. Well he found out a couple weeks later that I knew cause he told Sarah that she could finally tell me. Even before Sarah told me he liked me he wrote me a note saying "You like me don't you." I was shocked but I let it go and then later I found out he liked me. Anyways he's a HUGE pervert (which I'm used to) but that's not my problem. My problem is that if he asks me out I don't know what I'm gonna say. I sorta like him but I'm not sure of my feelings...sounds stupid I know...but I'm just kinda scared and hoping he won't ask me tomorrow

2006-12-18 14:52:56 · 6 answers · asked by Abby 6 in Singles & Dating

Why do I always keep hearing that short girls want to marry a guy who's tall so their kids would be tall?

Don't they know that, though genetics, height is PASSED DOWN THROUGH THE MOTHERS SIDE? Case in point, me. My dad is 5'10" and my mom is 5'1". I'm a 5'5" 23 yr old male Stanford psychology student. Subsequently, I have remained a virgin, never had a girlfriend, and had to suffer my mothers repugnant genetic sins and live life as a 5'5" cripple.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/human_height

Notice in the second paragraph of "Determinants of growth and height" it says:

"Genetically speaking, the heights of mother and son and of father and daughter correlate, suggesting that a short mother will more likely bear a shorter son, and tall fathers will have tall daughters."

I know some of you will say "not true!," but cases where a mother is short and her sons are tall are only if that mothers father is tall. If you're a short women with short parents your son WILL be short.

2006-12-18 14:52:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:51:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:51:24 · 9 answers · asked by STAR 2 in Friends

How long must you know a guy before you will share an intimate night of love making with him?

2006-12-18 14:51:14 · 7 answers · asked by slap_shot69 3 in Singles & Dating

I am moving back to my hometown in Philly after several years in NYC.
I had a personal ad on Match.com to see what guys in/near my hoemtown are like.
I thouhgt I met two interesting ones. 1 was a guy I knew years ago whom found me again online.
He seemed nice as always but soon turned pervy in his IMs. then 1 nite he sent me two pics of penis. And told me how he wanted to tie me up, make me a hurt a bit, try @nal on me and pretend trape me.
I have been too chicken to tell him I dont want to see him when I move home this week. -Should I or just ignore him ?
2nd guy I met online knows my family in real life and seemed cool. He was very polite and nice towards me. But it turns out he was iming a friend of a friend and me at the same time. Not a big deal. Problem is he was trying to get her to give out her home address at 2 am so he could come over and have quickie unprotected sex with each other. She told him he must have stds and no way.

2006-12-18 14:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do? Please. Logic is out of question. I am aware we haven't even met or talked with each other.

2006-12-18 14:49:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my best guy mate hav been friends 4 ages... latley we hav been seeing each other more and we do tell each other everything so i can understand y my parents would make the assumption that we are together... but they dont seem to listen when i explain that we are not... how do i convince them that we are not together?

2006-12-18 14:49:49 · 15 answers · asked by becstar 3 in Friends

well i like this boy and ive liked him for awhile but i just dont know what to do.i told one of m friends that i like him and he told him like 2 months ago...and he acts the same wit me but i wanna tell him i liek him but then i dont....and i want him 2 notice me help meeee! wat do i do?

2006-12-18 14:48:50 · 11 answers · asked by disperson 1 in Singles & Dating

My gf always loves to hug me from behind but recently she started to also hump me from behind while hugging me even in public when there isn't alot of people. When she is doing this she also whisper to my ears " ooooo yeah" and laughs while I keep quite. Does this mean that she wants to use a strap-on on me? If not, then why is she doing this?

2006-12-18 14:48:50 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:48:50 · 12 answers · asked by slap_shot69 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend goes really local Sike i just want one of u stupid hos' to get smart so I can flame yo big stupid as my email is bossy_babygirl_pink
If u got a promble give me a email when u get a cchance so holla at yo bossy as girl

2006-12-18 14:48:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

are you able to tell if the guy's penis is big or small?

i mean when you feel it, can u tell its size? cause im scared that if im grinding, they might think mine's to small or something and then not like me as a friend anymore, so im just wondering for my high school dance, plz reply!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...

2006-12-18 14:47:39 · 28 answers · asked by teetz 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 30/female. When I was younger, say, in high school, I had a ton of friends. I was obnoxious, and a bit ignorant. But... I had a ton of friends. I've matured and grown so much in the past 15 years it is unreal. I'm a much more enlightened person, educated, well read, and my interests have grown so much. I'm a decent person with healthy boundaries. I don't suffer from any major personality disorders. Ironically, I know now what it means to be a good friend. Back then, I had no clue, yet I had so many people to hang out with. Now, I have only 2 friends in the world and neither of them live near me. I have zero social life. I have not gone out to eat or to the movies in almost 2 years. I am physicaly fit and attractive. I cannot figure this out. I do not smell either - believe it or not I actually considered this. I just cannot figure this out. I've made several friends over the last several years but for some reason or another the friendships fade away. Any insights?
Thank

2006-12-18 14:47:04 · 5 answers · asked by Hermione G 5 in Friends

2006-12-18 14:47:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My closest female friend kept on burping over the phone while talking to me because apparently she has gas. So I told her it's pretty rude and she got upset. So she hanged up the phone. So after 3 mins she phone back and upset asking how come other people don't react like I do. She was crying a bit (drama again) so I told her I find it rude, it may not be for them but it's rude for me. Then she hanged up on me again? Is she rude? Is her action justifiable? Did I do anything wrong? What do you think guys?

2006-12-18 14:46:55 · 15 answers · asked by Confuse_Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

and for the past month we started haveing great sex is this normal to go from 2 years with ok sex to al of a sudden wonderful sex ? or is he cheating? or is he going to propose ?

2006-12-18 14:46:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:45:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-18 14:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

do you mind if a girl asks you out or would you rather ask her

2006-12-18 14:44:48 · 17 answers · asked by ohhhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

ANy hints how to get this boy i like his attention! by my clothing tactics ;) hehehe
thank you thank you for all of your help! <3 :-D

2006-12-18 14:44:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

Sorry I have another question :)

Me(19) and my boyfriend(20) have been dating for 2 years and lately he has been bothering me alot about having sex with him and I am just wondering if maybe I should just have sex with him, I mean he has waited for 2 years without bothering me.

I truly don't know what to do because I love him and I don't want him to break up with me or cheat on me :(

Other Details:
-I am a virgin(Waiting till marriage) and he is not

2006-12-18 14:43:50 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating