do you mind if a girl asks you out or would you rather ask her
2006-12-18 14:44:48 · 17 answers · asked by ohhhhh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Mind?, hell na, that's sexy. That tells you right away that the girl has confidence and knows what she wants and ain't afraid to go after it. Girls need to start step'n up more, don't wait on some guy. Go get him if you want em.
2006-12-18 14:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by SOLO KING 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do not mind at all. Sometimes men miss the obvious signals, or to shy. The only hang up is that some guys,(bastards), think that it is a full on invitation to sex. If that happens then a gentleman he is not. But U can control the situation. I have found it a refreshing change. From that situation I have one long time very good friend and a partner of 16 years
2006-12-18 22:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by ub6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd be THRILLED if a girl (that i like) asked me out... that'd be like one the the greatest moments in my life.. but that seldom happens, of course.. haha..
and i know this: asking a girl out takes me a week jus to collect my guts..even then, i might bail out on a sudden lack of confidence..
cuz rejection hurts like hell - at least for me - so asking out involves a great deal of emotional risk.. and sometimes i don't wanna take that risk..
so i dun mind at all if a girl asks me out =)
but of course, now, the risk falls on the girl.. so that might be somethin u wanna think about..
2006-12-18 22:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by deathbyte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I like to be asked out.
That way I can say no. Repel her. Upset her. Deny her. Crush her dreams. And most importantly, reject her like they always do to me.
Sorry if I sound bitter.
Personally I liked to be asked out.
2006-12-18 22:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by sweetirsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather have the girl ask me out. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-18 22:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOL PLZ MAKE A MOVE... guys r morons and i can say that because i am one... we would love if a girl made a move first and asked us out
2006-12-18 22:47:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I like being asked.
2006-12-18 22:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by sm4125 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Men mostly prefer to have the women ask them out. It's nice to not have to do it every damn time.
2006-12-18 22:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is a tough one, allthough I would wait till he askes you out.
flirt with him but don't touch him. tell him about the things you are up to- and when you walk by him turn around and look back at him.
2006-12-18 22:49:49 · answer #9 · answered by Hockeyplaya88 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ive always waited for them to ask me cuz if i ask them i always get a no, or a half yes half no, then i shut down and dont know what to say after that, so if they like me enough then theyll ask me, thats how i see it
2006-12-18 22:48:02 · answer #10 · answered by jim b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋