I am moving back to my hometown in Philly after several years in NYC.
I had a personal ad on Match.com to see what guys in/near my hoemtown are like.
I thouhgt I met two interesting ones. 1 was a guy I knew years ago whom found me again online.
He seemed nice as always but soon turned pervy in his IMs. then 1 nite he sent me two pics of penis. And told me how he wanted to tie me up, make me a hurt a bit, try @nal on me and pretend trape me.
I have been too chicken to tell him I dont want to see him when I move home this week. -Should I or just ignore him ?
2nd guy I met online knows my family in real life and seemed cool. He was very polite and nice towards me. But it turns out he was iming a friend of a friend and me at the same time. Not a big deal. Problem is he was trying to get her to give out her home address at 2 am so he could come over and have quickie unprotected sex with each other. She told him he must have stds and no way.
2006-12-18 14:50:04 · 10 answers · asked by I♥agoodhug 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She says I should tell them both off and that I will nevermeet, speak, or acknowledge them again. Should I tell both creepy guys off or just ignore them altogether ?
2006-12-18 14:50:18 · update #1
You can just ignore them... you don't owe them anything. The whole reason for talking to them was you were trying to find compatible people. If you feel like it, tell them how you feel. Either way there is no penalty. If you think that they could benefit from constructive criticism, then tell them that they are disgusting pervs.
Save your energy for positive undertakings when you meet the right guy... he'll appreciate it alot more than they ever would have. Best of luck to you, seems you might need it.
2006-12-18 14:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you asking whether you should see this first guy or not? Where is your head? Same way with the second guy. I wouldn't give either one of them the time of day or even the satisfaction of any more communication.
2006-12-18 14:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by BigJake418 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them!! Neither of them sound like they respect women. There are other men in Philly you can meet.
2006-12-18 14:56:45 · answer #3 · answered by dawndmo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There both creepy, stay away from them ignore them maybe they will give up and quit trying to contact you.
2006-12-18 14:54:12 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the man that you wanna see u don't feel'em!(like'em), and the same for the other 1.
2006-12-18 14:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by aria19_lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from them. Second guy doesn't seem too great, first guy should probably be in prison.
2006-12-18 14:53:30 · answer #6 · answered by tuna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them... If they persist, file a restraining order...
2006-12-18 14:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by HONORARIUS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, in these cases, dont feel bad about blowing them off. thank god they are transparent.
2006-12-18 14:53:31 · answer #8 · answered by rostov 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Blow 'em off-they really like it when they can get to you.
2006-12-18 14:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by smeezleme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BLOW THEM OFF!!! they are total pervs. and not acceptable for you or anyone at all!!!!
2006-12-18 14:53:08 · answer #10 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋