everything seems almost perfect with this guy i am seeing but right now hes not ready for a relationship. but the thing about it is we already do what people do in a relationship
2006-12-18 14:52:59 · 9 answers · asked by leigha w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sweet heart , A old saying here in the south goes like this...WHY BUY THE COW WHEN YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE !!!
It is not hard to figure out and here is why ''' He is hard horny and you are giving it up. This boy has the best of all worlds no commitment no strings and all the free nookie he wants. Girl a boy will say he loves a skunk if it will get him off . he would probably sleep with it too.
Also he has no respect for you.
Here is the difference between you too or most any uncommitted relationship
Your thoughts
1. you give it up because you think he loves you
2. you consider this love
His thoughts
1 What a piece of a s s she rocks my Woodie woo hoo
2 I wounder who else she is putting out too after all she gave it up to me so easy
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Young lady a guy will say and do anything for his own satisfaction
and once he has used your body for his pleasure he will soon tire of you and look else where .This will happen when you start pushing for a commitment he will back off.
Also you have it wrong you are already in a relationship and this also is the difference between you now have and what you want commitment
2006-12-18 15:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Great question. We are handicapped when it comes to things like this. Oh there are some that know exactly what they want. Of course, they are usually single. But hey, if you are already doing
"relationship" things, then go with the flow.
2006-12-18 14:56:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the thing you all ready do in a relationship is sex then he probably feels he doesn't need to be in a serious monagamous commited relationship with you, cause he's playing you
2006-12-18 14:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has commitment issues. Some guys don't want to be "tied down" or they want to keep their options open. Either way, it isn't fair for him to be indecisive and make you wait around to see what he wants. Either he wants a relationship with you or not - you deserve someone who wants to be with you officially, not just some friends with benefits crap.
2006-12-18 14:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That simply means he doesn't want a relationship with you but he doesn't mind sleeping with you...He isn't making it hard about what he wants, you just are choosing to ignore what he's telling you and you are seeing what you want to see.
2006-12-18 14:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're gullabe enough to give it up without getting a commitment first, you should go back to girl U.
2006-12-18 14:56:20 · answer #6 · answered by kirbyguy44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is a game...if both players are in synch then, you can figure out what they want in a relationship
2006-12-18 14:58:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anil P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kids kids kids thats the most big problem for most guys well not really it depends on the women is she stupid then forget bout ehr
2006-12-18 14:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by undergroundburn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they usually want to have sex or they want to spend more time with u... most guys that r kind of shy like to go on a date in groupps!!!well good luck!!!~_~
2006-12-18 14:58:05 · answer #9 · answered by i♥me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋