This friend of mine is friends with this guy in my grade. There was this big secret that no one would tell me for like 3 weeks. (Yeah it went on THAT long). Well I started getting mad cause everyone was being told it but me. The thing is that I was getting mad at (We'll just call him "G"). I was getting mad at "G" cause he was telling everyone but me but that's only cause the secret was about me. He told Sarah that he liked me. Well he found out a couple weeks later that I knew cause he told Sarah that she could finally tell me. Even before Sarah told me he liked me he wrote me a note saying "You like me don't you." I was shocked but I let it go and then later I found out he liked me. Anyways he's a HUGE pervert (which I'm used to) but that's not my problem. My problem is that if he asks me out I don't know what I'm gonna say. I sorta like him but I'm not sure of my feelings...sounds stupid I know...but I'm just kinda scared and hoping he won't ask me tomorrow
2006-12-18 14:52:56 · 6 answers · asked by Abby 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
cause tomorrow is the last day of school before winter break so what if he asks me out then? I'm like spazzing out and I really don't know what my answer will be. I've been wanting a b/f forever and now that I may actually get one I'm freaked out. I appreciate all this cause it's new for me but still ya know? I've only had one b/f in my life and we were so young that it was just one of those stupid-little-kid dating things but I'm just nervous and I don't know what I'm gonna say. Please give me advice on how to handle this...I like him some-what but I don't know how I truly feel about him and that sounds stupid but it's true....I'm just so confused with everything that even if I did know my true feelings I still wouldn't know what to do. If he does ask me out I don't know if I should go out with him or not. Please help??? :(
2006-12-18 14:56:06 · update #1
just tell'em u like'em but u wanna take thing's slow.
2006-12-18 15:11:36 · answer #1 · answered by aria19_lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a pervert you probably won't like him so just turn him down and obviously he's gutless or he would have told you and NOT waited 3 weeks! I say just say no and he might not even ask you out and if you're SCARED to go out with him you obviously can't like him!
2006-12-18 22:56:16 · answer #2 · answered by amagaldi_star 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not into him then all you can do is stand your ground, tell him that you're not intrested.
You shouldn't bother yourself with this kind of (what I call) "Mickey Mouse" stuff. You're better than that and don't let anyone tell you different.
2006-12-18 22:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by Clyde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i no exactly how you feel. tell him when he asks, tell him that you want to be more then friends but not going out. it will get complected, but until you make up your mind thats the way to go. you can always "just be friends" or "officially go out". simply complecated. good luck
2006-12-18 23:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by alien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep on it to decide whetheryou like him or not. If you don't if he asks you just say I'm flattered, but I don;t like you the way you like me, can we just be friends. Or sumthin like that.
2006-12-18 22:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by oReOs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him g
2006-12-18 22:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋