My bestfriend of 6yrs is married with children. Same ages as mine. She would call my hubby cutie names n come over n tight closes etc. "The big come on" It didn't bother me cause we were tight like that and I trust my husband. Her husband is just like me "talkative"n Mine just like her"passive". She would constantly say things like- "you need to be with mine and I need to be with yours". One day she came across her husbands cell bill wit my number on it "not unusual" we talked n emailed each other all the time. She accused us of cheating, totally not true! She n her husband cheated on each other constantly. I think she thought I would tell her business to her husband, but I wouldn't do that. Well, since she has accused him so much. He now has changed his # n password protected it, n calls me all the time 2 talk. He knows I talk to him, but the phonecalls are too good to give up, being that my husband isn't talker. She calls my husband trying to convenice him. He doesn't buy it.
2006-12-18 14:55:52 · 6 answers · asked by ICanBeWithoutYou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Are you and her still friends? If so you and your husband need to have a talk with her and just tell her that there is absolutely nothing going on. She should trust you unless this is the way she thinks she'll be able to have your husband. Some people will try anything to get somebody. Especially since she said that she should be w/ your husband and you w/hers. Good luck.
2006-12-18 15:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by lynnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the phone call are to good to give up.........
You need to break this off today! You are doing both your husband and your friend a great injustice by getting involved in her marriage. I think you like the attention her husband gives you and just because you aren't having sex with him still can make you a cheater in another sense. So long as her husband has somone else he can talk too and pay attention to him he doesn't need to work on his marriage
Sounds like you need to get involved in your own marriage and find out why you and your hubby have lost that spark.
The grass is not greener on the other side.
2006-12-18 15:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by That_ blue_ eyed_ Irish_ lass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too much drama! why stay int he middle of another couple's problems??? tell all to your mate and let the other man go. stop answering the phone. the next step for him is to act in person. that's when you get your husband and have him handle it especially if the stalker traps you in any way!
it also confirms to your best girlfriend that it was him all along no matter how he twists the story.
2006-12-18 15:02:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah GB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends man has to change his password for privacy then there is something he is trying to hide from his girl. If you are causing problems for them then you should step out of the picture. You are using the excuse that your male friend is talkative like you are. You can find someone else to talk to like for instance a female friend. Something just doesn't sound right.
2006-12-18 15:02:07 · answer #4 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, this lady is NOT a freind!! Stay away from her. She is bringing VERY bad energy into your home and is a home wrecker at heart. Stay away from that and take care of your relationship with YOUR husband.
2006-12-18 15:15:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an affair
2006-12-18 14:59:29 · answer #6 · answered by sm4125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋