Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

what should i do we are still friends but he wants to go out but i dont think he can handle the depression i face?

2006-12-18 14:31:59 · 30 answers · asked by alyssa r 1 in Friends

dont answer "cuz it's not attractive" ? ok - why? im curious why it is not attractive.

2006-12-18 14:31:42 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am confused.. I read something today and my boyfriend asked a question is it wrong to be with my girlfriend if she is pregnant.. Well is it wrong to love somebody who has cheated on you and might be the father of another girls baby that he had cheated on you with?? I need answer please help.. My son is due in 5 weeks and 4 days and I need to know if what I should do........

2006-12-18 14:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by dhohlfelder18 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:30:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My son has ADHD , ODD , and PDD among other things . i am having a real hard time with him right now. he will not listen to me for anything. He is being rude , defiant , throwing temper tantrums etc... no one wants to come around us because life has gotten so chaotic. He has no respect for me or other authority. He keeps getting kicked out of school. We have help on the way , a counciling service in home and psyc doctor and so on. He has been like this mildly for years but the last few weeks have been a living hell. I love my son with all my heart and soul , but this has taken a toll on the entire family. Does anyone have any suggestions? I am lost. I have tried everything i can imagine and nothing is getting through to him.HELP!!

2006-12-18 14:30:27 · 9 answers · asked by brmj41975 2 in Family

2006-12-18 14:30:27 · 5 answers · asked by anonymous 2 in Friends

She is beutiful. We are both almost 13. She is really cool but hangs out with a whole other croud. What should I do?

2006-12-18 14:30:11 · 7 answers · asked by Novelist 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:29:56 · 12 answers · asked by cchrisr1972 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:29:55 · 1 answers · asked by Johnny Q. 3 in Singles & Dating

my guy does this before the gym alot of mornings and then he goes on to work. we been together for almost 6 mo. we not boyfriend girlfriend titled yet but we only sleep and see each other. my friends think hes scared because of a past marriage were his exwife did him wrong and so maybe hes scared

2006-12-18 14:29:21 · 15 answers · asked by leigha w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I asked a guy who I really like but have developed a a sex only relationship with due to the fact that he's so "busy" if I was wasting my time with him and he tells me, "No. I enjoy your company when I get to see you." But I am always the one who initiates any type of contact we have (which is usually late @ night). Everytime I confront him about my feelings he'll say that "it's not like that, I'm just busy". Am I just playing myself? Should I just leave him alone? F.Y,I> Disregard the pic, I'm a woman. LOL

2006-12-18 14:29:20 · 4 answers · asked by Beauty 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:29:05 · 5 answers · asked by Margaret W 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it right for me to be mad at my friend's boyfriend. i think he might be cheating on her. and i don't want her to get hurt. He is always flirting with other girls and i see it happening. and the girls are like all over him! and i don't think it is fair to my friend that is going out with him. and when i told him that he think that he wasn't even flirting with her. and the girls that he flirts with already has a boyfriend. so do you think i have the right to assume that he is cheating on her and do i have the right to be mad at him?

2006-12-18 14:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Catherine 14 2 in Singles & Dating

She gets mad because I don't change diapers or clean on a daily basis. I provide for the family and I feel I have done everything that I can. Most evenings I am too tired to do much but I do what I can. She says being a stay at home mom is the hardest job, but when I come home and she can tell me everything that was on tv that day I don't much believe it. Please tell me if I am crazy or if she is just lazy. Thanks.

2006-12-18 14:28:56 · 37 answers · asked by mtk0519 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just got out of a 4 year relationship. I knew for a couple months that it was going nowhere, so it was no shocker when i ended it. It's been about a month and I'm really starting to like one of my guy friends, I told him how i felt, and he feels the same. I really want to go out with him, but I'm afraid it might just be a rebound. I feel like I really care about him, how do I know if I do or not?

2006-12-18 14:28:24 · 9 answers · asked by carxoxo07 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a 10years good relationship. Everyone had thouht that we'll end up together but he didn't bother mentioning of plans getting married. I begin to felt cold and met somebody and broke with him,. Im happy..got married and got 2 kids as well... While he still remain single and not heard he's into a relationship after ours. My confusion is... I met and dated my husband not officially broke up with my ex and not really spoke to him what causes the break up. My ex just found out that soon I'm getting married. I'm felt quite guilty knowing that he's not into relationship nor not seeing anyone. by the way, im his first. Should I speak to him and apoligize for the hurt that i cause???. God, Its been 6 years......

2006-12-18 14:27:50 · 6 answers · asked by milkee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this guy who lives up my street, but does not go to my school and I like him alot. There are these 2 guys I know and one of them is on a football team with him and said he would get the guy I like to come out someday. So about 4 weeks ago me and my 2 friends who I hang out with every Friday walked up my street and saw the 2 guys that said they would get him to come out, so they did and the only thing we talked about was our favorite sports, and what time it is. Now one of the guys told the guy i like that i like him. Every day when me and my 2 friends walk to school, those two boys who are my friends either say that the guy i like thinks I'm cute, or that he is not interested so I don't know what to believe.


Now after reading that whole confusing story I want to know how I can get him to like me even tho he already knows that I like him, and I can't get him to come out of his house without those 2 boys. Thank you so much in advance

2006-12-18 14:27:49 · 14 answers · asked by oReOs 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 14:27:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 14:27:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

im in love
ive never felt this way about anyone before
but i cant have them
what do i do

2006-12-18 14:27:26 · 6 answers · asked by livers 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been gone for 2 months because I am in the ARMY. I am leaving for 5 months next week. what can I do to show her appreciation for holding down our apartment, taking care of our 2 kids and working 2 jobs at the same time and all the other things in between? we are on a limited income. any suggestions will be appreciated.

2006-12-18 14:27:16 · 12 answers · asked by daniel e 3 in Family

My ex and I broke up about 4 months ago and we did not speak to each other for a month after the break up. We started talking again and he wanted to get back with me but I just don't want to fall for his lame games anymore, so anyway, it was my birthday yesterday and he didn't call me until today and before I said anything , he said that he lost his phone but then he actually told the truth and he said that he forgot it was my birthday...Is he telling the truth or bullshitting me all over again?? How can he forget after being with me for three years??

2006-12-18 14:26:11 · 3 answers · asked by Fashionista 4 in Singles & Dating

Whenever a gift giving occasion rolls around, I pick a fight with my girlfriend (Xmas, Valentine's day, her birthday, etc). Then the day after I make up with her. It saves me a lot of money not having to get her a gift and the make up sex is great. What do you think guys?

2006-12-18 14:26:00 · 10 answers · asked by Prince of the Dispersion 3 in Singles & Dating

a young woman buys from my shop very often so she invited me out once n i told her i can not cos am married,she said she mean nothing by inviting me out.some weeks later she invited me again this time to art exibition .on our way back she picked up her laundry and decided to drop it at her home b4 dropping me off at my shop,she invited me in and offered me some wine,the next thing hpened too sudden ,now she keeps asking for more even vowing to tell my wife if i keep ignoring her ,am so sorry abot this and dont want to lose my wife ,infact am scare! what should i do?

2006-12-18 14:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by cocktail 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 14:25:03 · 10 answers · asked by mubinmuskan 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

internet thru whitepages.com. this person was previously divorced, but i have no social security number. is there a way to find this person with a divorce certificate?

2006-12-18 14:24:58 · 1 answers · asked by lookingforanswersandquestions 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 14:24:27 · 7 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has gain 40 lbs. since we have been together and we have only been together for 7 months. I have gain about 15 lbs. but he sometimes call me fat or "thick" and say that he likes thinner females, but when we are out he stares at females 50 lbs. or more than me. I am starting to resent him for it and do not know if I am going to stay with him longer. He laughs in a way that torments my emotions but I never tell him anything bad about his weight all I say is he is sexy. I need some advice on what to do and I need some opinions on why he stares at people older and fatter than me. He is 45 years old and I am 31. I dated him because I thought they got better with age.

2006-12-18 14:23:42 · 14 answers · asked by starsmoonis 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me n my ex have been 2gether 4yrs. We were both 16 when we started. out of nowhere 2 mouths ago she broke up w/ me. Since that we both been on a roller coster ride from hell. She comes back she loves me next week we're just friends. Then after a wk of not talking she calls agian asking 4 help. I go n we for that day get back 2gether. last monday she does it agian n wants to be just friends. I see her last monday n we talk n we seem like friends. I called her today and we talked. I asked her want she wanted and she just wants to be friends, she says she nolonger loves like she use too n she sometimes has mixed feeling but she thinks she is over it. I told her i still luv n i want to marry her. The think is she will not give me a direct answer. some time we act like friends other time we talk like a couple confuseing. what to do. I cant move on. i emailed her n she said she doesnt want to think about it now. does she need time? should i just give her space, so both of us can think?

2006-12-18 14:23:39 · 5 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Singles & Dating

i have chursh on this boy my friend says he looks like a omen kid my friend are jerk but i don t talk to him

2006-12-18 14:22:26 · 5 answers · asked by c_h_h_a 1 in Singles & Dating