I asked a guy who I really like but have developed a a sex only relationship with due to the fact that he's so "busy" if I was wasting my time with him and he tells me, "No. I enjoy your company when I get to see you." But I am always the one who initiates any type of contact we have (which is usually late @ night). Everytime I confront him about my feelings he'll say that "it's not like that, I'm just busy". Am I just playing myself? Should I just leave him alone? F.Y,I> Disregard the pic, I'm a woman. LOL
2006-12-18 14:29:20 · 4 answers · asked by Beauty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you read the book "he's just not that into you"? One of my favourite parts is how the Greg describes the word "busy" as the "relationship word of mass destruction". He also has a great point about how he sometimes accidentally calls people from his pants pocket, but I digress ... the point is, that if someone is really interested in you, he/she will MAKE the time to see you and have a relationship, not just get together for sex. And hey, I have nothing against sexually based relationships, as long as both people are consenting adults, have an understanding that it is just about sex, are not otherwise attached and play safe. But the point here is that you want more than sex and he's "busy". If you find yourself making contact with him, leave him alone for a while and see what he does ... remember, actions often speak louder than words. Good luck with it!
2006-12-18 14:37:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is precious, but means to world to someone who wants to get to know you.
This guy is using you for a booty call. Don't let him do you like that. There is research indicating women get emotionally attached to a man when having sex. Men do not attach at all if they don't want to. Don't allow yourself to become any more attached to this guy by continuing to have sex with him.
I'm going to guess that when you stop putting out, he will lose interest in you real fast. His intentions are not genuine.
2006-12-18 14:33:40 · answer #2 · answered by dkuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my grandmother was a wise old bird..she always said, 'never waste time on a man who won't waste time on you', enough said?
2006-12-18 14:41:16 · answer #3 · answered by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, leave him. if he was interested he would take the initiative
2006-12-18 14:32:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋