Is it right for me to be mad at my friend's boyfriend. i think he might be cheating on her. and i don't want her to get hurt. He is always flirting with other girls and i see it happening. and the girls are like all over him! and i don't think it is fair to my friend that is going out with him. and when i told him that he think that he wasn't even flirting with her. and the girls that he flirts with already has a boyfriend. so do you think i have the right to assume that he is cheating on her and do i have the right to be mad at him?
2006-12-18 14:28:58 · 7 answers · asked by Catherine 14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes and No. You have a right to be mad if he is flirting but you shouldn't asume he is cheating on her. I would get some more facts before telling your friend he is cheating.
2006-12-18 14:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by Novelist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to tell from what you wrote if he is cheating or not. Some guys are just real good at flirting. Some guys (and some girls too, it seems), to complicate matters further, think that part of flirting includes not letting on that you care too much about the potential for a relationship.
That doesn't mean you don't have the right to be mad for the mixed signals he is giving though.
2006-12-18 22:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by G A 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way about my moms boyfriend but when i try to tell her she acts like she can't hear so i said to myself that i would never tell her anything else and when she does find out he is cheating i will only be there for her and i would never tell her i told u so but to answer your question yes u have the right to be mad at him he is dating your friend but to assume he is cheating is not right maybe he is just a big flirt but u need to just voice your opinion to her about the things he is doing and maybe she will listen
2006-12-18 22:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by jsxy695 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may or may not be. You said these girls are "all over him" so it sounds like he's been cursed with great looks that they just can't resist or something. That's not his fault but if he doesn't let them know he's taken and keeps flirting, then of course you have a right to be mad and you should let your friend know that he's not being a dedicated partner.
2006-12-18 22:34:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not only can you be mad at him but you need to find a way to bring it to her attention. maybe have someone else say the saw him so you dont get any bad feelings between you.
2006-12-18 22:33:07 · answer #5 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not cheating he's just flirting but when he starts getting numbers frm the girls then u tell ur friend........matter of fact tell ur friend that he's flirting wiht other girls.
2006-12-18 22:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by falawoods 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a little crush on him yourself. Thats why you pay attention. I bet you want him. You might not admit it but it is obvious.
2006-12-20 16:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Husker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋