Family & Relationships - 18 December 2006

i had a conversation with a man in a formal meeting as our mutual friend introduce us.. i was being polite and asking abt his business. i am kinda frindly with everyone. suddenly he mentioned abt his wife and the topic is also out. i felt so insulted because he thought i was flirting.. i had no idea at all he thought that way. i was so insulted.. i didn't feel attracted to him at all.. because i have the best boyfriend at the moment.. what do u think?? should i b angry and insulted???!!!

2006-12-18 14:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Tina J 1 in Singles & Dating

someone touched u on ur leg and a***

2006-12-18 14:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

A guy and I became friends during the semester. During that time I told him of me having Asperger's Syndrome and I warned him that I couldn't distinguish when I would go over the "fine line" of being friends and wanting more. Well, I unintentionally did go over, and he stopped emailing me in the same manner as he had before. I continued to email him asking if I did anything wrong. He never responded, so I hand wrote him a letter apologizing for going over, and figured best that I just leave his life forever. I would have rather left him "annoyed" at me as opposed to him hating me, as I couldn't live with that fact. I gave him the letter and just walked away. He emailed me back, and emotions ran really high, I replied and then he wrote back one more time. In that email, he told me he didn't want to use the university email anymore and gave me his personal email. Is this a sign that he still does want to remain friends and not have me out of his life forever? I am so lost with it.

2006-12-18 14:00:47 · 5 answers · asked by left handed math geek 1 in Friends

Since then he has taken money out of our joint account ($150 in bars in one weekend) (my account) without telling me (which is the agreement we made together). He then replaced the money w/$ from HIS account (I don't have access to) and the check bounced (and that account has now been overdrawn for a month). He then opened another account with his military address (again I have NO access) without first discussing it with me. Then, he bought a truck (took out a loan) and told me three days later. Then, he changed his direct deposit so it is going into his new account, but didn't say a word to me until I found out Friday. (With the military, direct deposit takes close to a month to take effect, so he knew). And to top it off, he won’t merge our cell phones to save money! Now, he isn't talking to ME because we are "fighting about money."

Am I wrong to be angry? As husband and wife shouldn't we discuss financial choices (like financing a vehicle)? What can I do to help him understand?

2006-12-18 14:00:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, I like this girl at school. we get along pretty well, but i thinks she likes another boy and i'm not sure if he likes her back. they talk alot at school. should i try and go after her and see if she wants to hang out over break or just leave it at that

2006-12-18 14:00:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive met a great guy and i think i love him but then there is another whos sweet and athletic but im dating the first one but im falling for both what do i do?

2006-12-18 14:00:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We talk on IM alot but in school its different...plus she is BEAUTIFUL and i'm not really all that... just athletic and so is she...advice??

2006-12-18 13:58:56 · 7 answers · asked by J.T. Rollz 1 in Singles & Dating

Her mom took it in stride and never let on. She is now married so it would be complicated to tell my girlfriend for more than one reason. We never had a relationship, she was a bartender at a place I go to and we went out a few times. I didn't even know her last name. I really think there could be something good between my girlfriend and I so I hate to end it. What should I do?

2006-12-18 13:58:37 · 10 answers · asked by joe g 1 in Singles & Dating

Share your experience or what you've always wanted for a man to do for you that was romantic. It can be simple or extravagant. Give us guys who lack creativity some ideas so that we can evolve it as our own and possibly put a smile on the face of our lady.


Thanks!!!

2006-12-18 13:58:24 · 2 answers · asked by Truth 2 in Singles & Dating

ones special needs? I am in my mid 30’s. Worked very hard and done well for myself and my family. I am tired of taking care of everyone who happens to have some special needs. I know that some are born this way, some do it to themselves by doing stupid things, some are just lazy, and some just fake it. I see the negative effects of this philosophy in my children’s schools, my work place, stores, and many other places. I am sorry but why should their problems affect my life so much. Why should my child get less one on one attention from the teacher because we are mainstreaming mentally handicapped children who take up 3 times as much time as a normal kid? They are now trying to change our paper money so the blind have trouble using it. Why cant they use debit cards or coins. 10% of poplulation is gay so they want everything changed to make them happy. Ladies want to be able to breast feed thier kids at work. Where does it end.

2006-12-18 13:57:55 · 6 answers · asked by Brian 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to do something romantic for my wife for Christmas, I'd appriciate any ideas. Thanks

2006-12-18 13:57:35 · 12 answers · asked by Bryan M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a bond with them but how can i get a stronger one ??

2006-12-18 13:57:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She has been telling me that she wants to have child but she is taking birth control pill without letting me know.

How can I prove it to the court if I want to file an abuse against her.
the reason I am saying she is cheating becuase
she is telling me she wants to have child but when I asked her about pill she said the pills are not birth control pills --those are other drugs but she won't tell me what are those drugs for, I am 90% sure she is taking birth control pills, but she should tell me that ---should not she ?

2006-12-18 13:57:16 · 19 answers · asked by sehzad 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Heheh. Yeah.

Anyways, for about a year, I have been trying for the heart of the hottest girl in the class. :) I have somewhat succeeded - she actually liked me about a week ago. I was going to ask her out relatively soon.

Strangely enough, I am quite a nerd. I was voted the best looking in the class (hahah. :) ) and I am the funnest / funniest person in the class. But. I am a nerd (I am in a Math program, Science Olympiad,Tech Club - you name it.)

Ah, the burden of intelligence. :(

Well, all was going well, until someone brought a Rubix Cube to school. Generally, I'm good at concealing my nerdiness, but I decide to do it anyways.

Most people are impressed. Most.

Now, this girl is creeped out by me.

Quite the dilemma, eh?

This girl is quite flirtatious, and whilst I am a brilliant pyschoanalyst (and modest, too.) I suck at being able to read any signs whatsoever from her.

What to do? :(

2006-12-18 13:57:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean he is already a friend of mine and he is great! I didn't really know him till about a month ago but I decided that I really like him! I guess I am just not the type to come out and say "I LUV YOU". I eman I can't go to the dances at school till I am 16 but if I could that would be my answer is just to ask him to that but I can't so what do I do??? how can I let him know that I like him without being to obviouse? I have been known to be a bit on the embarassing obvious side!!!! I need some hep!!!!!!

2006-12-18 13:55:54 · 6 answers · asked by lova_gal5511 1 in Singles & Dating

he is still in childrens hospitial here in knoxville tenn. he has lost down to 7 lbs. just keep him in your prayers please i know god can heal him -love you all and god bless

2006-12-18 13:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by janieloveday 2 in Family

or may be not get over i mean..i just meet this guy at my job n he is sooo fine ..but i havent talk to him... i want him to notice me, but i dont know how i get nervouse, like one time he was lookin at me n then i looked at him n he winked at me i juss laughed but i got so nervouse i really like him, i think he is so cute.. oh yeah n i got him for secret santa..idk what should i get him..i also want him to kinda now i like him but how? i dont wanna make him think that he has to tlk to me..juss like a hint or sumthing. i just want him to notice me, what should i do.anything that works! plz guys. thanks.

2006-12-18 13:55:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is only a child and we have reason to believe that the step father is a suspected pedophile. Mother is not a stable person either. Her father and I are worried that she may be sexually active and possibly not by choice. How can we find out for sure. She does not live with us but her mother so would like some help as to what to do and where can we go for help. This is from Australia so need pertinent answers for this country and it's rules and regulations concerning this. Not to say we would not like anyones opinion from wherever. Here's hoping someone may be able to help us. Thanks!

2006-12-18 13:55:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have cried pleaded and screamed about keeping the house dirt and dust free but I can't get the point across without being mean. I need to find a new approach before he desides to leave me...Anyone have any suggestions?

2006-12-18 13:54:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I mean people you see everyday, women and men. How can you tell by body language if they think you're ugly. Will they laugh when they talk to you. What might they do. And strangers too. Because sometimes a guy will look down does this mean he thinks you're ugly?

2006-12-18 13:54:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what does "he's checking the waters with you" mean?

2006-12-18 13:54:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My b/f and I have been together for a little over 3 years..For 2 1/2 of those years he live in PA and I lived in IL..In march he finally moved to IL and we moved into an apartment together. Everything was great at first..now everything has gone down hill. We haven't had sex in over a month..we fight all the time (they get extremely phyical) and Im questioing us still being together. Whenever I threaten to live he always cries and tells me to stay because he really loves me, but He doesn't act like he does. We never do anything together beside watch tv...as both work from 4-12pm and have different days off. I love him more then anything and don't want to lose him..but I don't know what to do anymore. SHould I just pack up my things and go? Or should I stick it out and hope this is just a rough patch?

2006-12-18 13:53:53 · 3 answers · asked by Keli D 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay. I am an 8th grader in high school. A person offered me a ciggerette, and i was stupid enough to take it. i only had one. it has ben 2 weeks since that happend. But i am feeling guilty not telling my parents. im afraid what their going to think. they wont like ground me. but im afraid what their going to think about me. how should i tell them? PLEASE HELP!

2006-12-18 13:53:35 · 10 answers · asked by jOe RuLeS!!! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-18 13:53:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After iv introduced myself what then?
say iv already said hey,whats your name,my names fred.
i compliment her on something like her hair.blah blah blah.
so,next time i see her,what do i do?ask her on a date?
ask for a number?what do i do?

2006-12-18 13:53:17 · 10 answers · asked by billup d 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 13:52:54 · 18 answers · asked by sean d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I look at some of my friends who have profiles on different site and they put down that they are looking for a relationship not a hook-up. But then someone will show interest and they meet them and have sex with them. Then to add insult the dirt bag has a girlfirend. I look at my friends and can't believe that first off...they would sleep w/ a guy they met on-line...secondly..they have a girlfriend. I think it gives us good women a bad rap. That is why men look at us as sluts. Have some self respect.

2006-12-18 13:52:09 · 7 answers · asked by littleredd1003 2 in Singles & Dating

I started dating a cute guy whom I used to date when we were very young.
Always thought he was cool and nice guy.
Right now Im away from him for a two month job training course.
We never had a talk to be exclusive (we only had 3 dates since we started dating again)
He regularly tells me he misses me and wants me.
It was cute at first but now he keeps saying rough stuff that he wants to do to me. Pull my hair, mak eme hurt a little, Very extreme s & m and roleplay rape.
It sounds more violent than pleasurable.

Should I break it off with him ? Is he just fantasizing ? He seems to get very excited the more violent he makes being physical with me sound.
Should I be scared ?

2006-12-18 13:51:55 · 10 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

The way he disrespects me is calling me all the names you can think of. How can you get him to respect a person such as myself and because I am saying this is, because he does not disrespect his mom and his brother or his sister.Sometime or I meen all the time he says he wants to get rid of me. I love him with all my heart and soul can aybody help me answer my question? I appricate it thanks.

2006-12-18 13:51:48 · 12 answers · asked by j13 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-18 13:51:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating