My b/f and I have been together for a little over 3 years..For 2 1/2 of those years he live in PA and I lived in IL..In march he finally moved to IL and we moved into an apartment together. Everything was great at first..now everything has gone down hill. We haven't had sex in over a month..we fight all the time (they get extremely phyical) and Im questioing us still being together. Whenever I threaten to live he always cries and tells me to stay because he really loves me, but He doesn't act like he does. We never do anything together beside watch tv...as both work from 4-12pm and have different days off. I love him more then anything and don't want to lose him..but I don't know what to do anymore. SHould I just pack up my things and go? Or should I stick it out and hope this is just a rough patch?
2006-12-18 13:53:53 · 3 answers · asked by Keli D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you two? If you're both under 26, you two shouldn't be in a committed relationship and living together is just bad news.
If you're under 26, you should be going to college, focusing on a career and seeing lots of other people. Actually, you both should be doing that. Otherwise you two are just playing grown-up.
Based on your description of physical arguments and lack of sex, is not good news. Just think if you two marry, it will be worse.
Get out while you two can before you get pregnant.
2006-12-18 14:17:57 · answer #1 · answered by Dave C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he moved from pa to il to be with you and you vamp on him, you are wrong. you should have know more about him, before he moved here or you moved in with him. if 3 years of dating were distance dating, how could you move in with him without knowing what type of person he is. but the saying is, you never know a person until you live with them. if the fights are physical, there is no relationship anyway.
2006-12-18 22:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow keli d sounds like your in a, pardon my french relationshit.... i understand that you to love each other and to move in together is a huge step... he seams like he does love you and if i were in your situation i would try to TALK to him.... and when i say that i mean threaten him really bad that your going to leave him... theres only 1 way that some one pays attention and thats when you make a BIG fight out of it and bring it to LIGHT.... if he doesnt realize how much you are truly worth then break up with him...as much as i hate to say this just break up with him... Actually if he is abusive you need to GET OUT NOW..... this is not a good relationship Break up and if you meet up again down the road maybe hes smarter and maybe you try again but if he's abusive ... do both yourselfs a favor and end it... NOW
2006-12-18 22:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋