The way he disrespects me is calling me all the names you can think of. How can you get him to respect a person such as myself and because I am saying this is, because he does not disrespect his mom and his brother or his sister.Sometime or I meen all the time he says he wants to get rid of me. I love him with all my heart and soul can aybody help me answer my question? I appricate it thanks.
2006-12-18 13:51:48 · 12 answers · asked by j13 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY ARE U EVEN WITH HIM.....HE DONT RESPECT U CUZ U DONT RESPECT YOURSELF....U WONT STAND UP TO HIM. U DESERVE BETTER AND HE IS NOT THE ONLY MAN OUT HERE....YOU ARE ABUSING YOURSELF CUZ U KNOW HE DOESNT RESPECT YOU.
TRY TO WEIN AWAY FROM HIM...DONT CALL WHEN U GET HOME ...DONT CALL WHEN U GET UP....JUST LET HIM CALL U AND DONT CALL HIM BACK....KISS HIM BYE BYE
U AND YOUR HEART DESERVE BETTER!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 14:02:20 · answer #1 · answered by aflyladybug4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby I sorry but you can't love him cause you don't love yourself
you have to get a better appreciation for YOU then when you do that and start loving yourself then a man con love you back. All he sees is a person who is insecure, he can dog and you just keep coming back for more. Stand up for yourself you deserve better than that. Love yourself with all your heart and soul let the love you have for him shine on yourself for a change when you do that you will be seen as a women who deserves respect and commands respect not that you don' t already deserve it.
2006-12-18 22:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this person is no good for you....anyone who cares about you would not disrespect you. You are making up excuses for his actions. That is not a correct way to go through a relationship. You will hurt for a while after you leave him but you will find someone much better....
2006-12-18 21:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Tsafr01 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He isn't going to change, you can't make a person be something they are not. Obviously since he TELLS you he wants to get rid of you you're not taking the hint. Just because YOU love him doesn't mean that HE loves you...which by the way he doesn't. He wants you to leave him alone. What is it going to take for you to get a clue? Because he can't get much more obvious than he already has been.
2006-12-18 21:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your b/f disrespects you because you let him! Also...you have to respect yourself and by that I mean...not allowing ANYONE to disrespect you. You seem to be suffering from a case of low-self esteem! You say you love HIM..but do you love YOURSELF??? I know you have heard it all before....so empower yourself to end the disrespect. The longer you let this go on..the hardrer it will be to end. I am still trying to understand why you love someone who treats you this way.
2006-12-18 22:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by libradoll3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dating is to find a other half. How long do you want to put up with him? He will learn when he loses enough that he cares about.
2006-12-18 21:55:23 · answer #6 · answered by ronnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'd slap the **** out his *** and tell him to save all that **** for his mammy and i'd dump his *** cause he aint got no right treating u the way he does, sweetie, you're better than me cause i would make his life a living hell if a man would talk to me like that, i'd slap the taste out his damn mouth and tell him where he could go!
2006-12-18 21:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 1st don't let him get you down stand up for yourself.I would walk away and get your self respect back. Good Luck
2006-12-18 21:59:34 · answer #8 · answered by Dew 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
break up w/ him give him a week he'll either move on or start singing a different tone.
2006-12-18 21:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by ken hill 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should point out that your a girl not just his friend.
2006-12-18 21:55:08 · answer #10 · answered by felixtricks 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋