My wife is cheating on me, I want to prove it first then divorce?

Question

She has been telling me that she wants to have child but she is taking birth control pill without letting me know.

How can I prove it to the court if I want to file an abuse against her.
the reason I am saying she is cheating becuase
she is telling me she wants to have child but when I asked her about pill she said the pills are not birth control pills --those are other drugs but she won't tell me what are those drugs for, I am 90% sure she is taking birth control pills, but she should tell me that ---should not she ?

Answer 1

discuss this with her !
sure she may be hiding somethings from you about the pills, but
going and asking strangers for suggestions won't help in a relationship that probably needs that communication....

Answer 2

Taking birth control pills does not mean that she is cheating. It means that she does not want to be tied down with a child. Before you got married was she willing to have a baby? Has her health changed? Have you changed? I would suggest that the both of you go to her doctor and get down to the bottom of the issue. When you have nothing to hide, there should not be a problem of you going together. If she has a health issue, and you are her husband you must know what to expect in the future.

Answer 3

That is a very big accusation! Maybe they are fertility drugs or a drug to make her ovulate? Find the pills and do a google search on the name to find out exactly what they are for before you do anything. Some women actually have to take the pill a while before getting pregnant, too. It helps make their periods regular so when the time comes, it won't be as hard for either of you. If you really think she is cheating (not just taking pills) you need to call 'Cheaters' or something just to make sure! Good Luck to you!

Answer 4

get one of her pills and have someone, like the police or a doctor check it out. Police would probably be best because they test strange narcotics anyway. Then set up a hidden camera in your house in a few rooms and tell her well in advance that you have "business" in another state or someplace far away and will be gone for at least three days. Then comeback take the hidden camera footage and review it for yourself, if you catch her turn it in with the pill as evidence that you get and get yourself the best damn attorney that you can afford. If all else fails, jerry springer baby!!! Hope this works. P. S. If you do this and find nothing, you should appoligize, and hope she doesnt flip shitt on u.

Answer 5

Just because a women is taking birth control does not mean she is cheating on you. She just may not want a baby and doesn't know how to tell you or maybe she feels you don't care about her feelings regarding having a baby. Sounds like there isn't enough trust and honesty to be bringing a baby into that relationship.

Answer 6

So this means she's cheating on you? Anyway, you're very suspicious. Why would you ask a question on Yahoo Answers instead of directly confronting your wife with your findings? If your wife is actually cheating there's nothing you could do about it if you actually could prove it. Just file for divorce. Adultery doesn't mean anything in most states anymore.

Answer 7

Take the pills then have a doctor look at them

Answer 8

If you don't know what she is taking then you're not 90% sure of anything other than you think she is cheating on you. That isn't proof of anything other than you not knowing what she is taking, and no she doesn't HAVE to tell you what she is taking. For all YOU know they COULD be fertility pills.

Answer 9

That's not cheating. Cheating would be if she was having an affair. And you can't file a law suit against her for taking birth control.

Answer 10

You have to have abuse first before you can file for that.If she don't come clean,I'm very sorry to have to write this but yes you may have to consider a divorce.I just broke off my relationship with my girlfriend for the same reason,not coming clean.