2006-12-18 13:52:54 · 18 answers · asked by sean d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We really can't answer this question except with the obvious like if you find underware next to your bed that isn't yours, she's cheating. If she's not where she told you she was going, that might be your sign. However if you have no reason not to trust her you could really ruin things between the two of you by waiting to catch her cheating.
2006-12-18 14:10:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes!
Your marriage is cr@p, from her point of veiw of course.
Wives don't become unfaithful for no reason, maybe your idea of marriage is just not hers. Maybe you're too engrosed in your job, your hobby/s, or yourself and she feels someting is lacking in her life. Maybe your paranoid jealous attitude is what is driving her away.
If you are looking for signs that your wife is having an affair then you will find them, even if they aren't there. You should be looking at the signs that your wife is not happy, either with you or her situation in your marriage.
One last word, if she is having an affair, then you have already lost her. just ask her why, learn from the mistakes and move on.
2006-12-22 10:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you just have to know what to look for. You have to pay attention to new things and different things she does. Look mostly for changes, but with it being around the Christmas holiday you might not be able to really tell till after the first of the year. She may be acting weird because of a gift, so wait till after the first then you should just pay close attention but don't make accusations if you don't really know. Hope that helps. Good luck!!!
2006-12-18 13:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is get that idea out of your head!! Marriage is built on trust and honesty as well. If you don't trust your wife why don't you trust her? You need to somehow create the atmosphere so that you both trust each other no matter what and are honest with each other, otherwise it will grow into something unhealthy.
2006-12-18 14:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Wannabefree 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well as a woman myself i can tell you there are a couple of red flags one is she is being nicer if she was a little rough she comes up with lots of excuses as to why she can't have sex , she does things she normally do or is washing her clothes as soon as she gets home . I hope this can help i also advice that you just watch her mannerism's and that will give it away good luck happy holidays.
2006-12-18 23:31:33 · answer #5 · answered by debuton2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there a man in her bed when you get home? No! Then anything else could have loads of perfectly reasonable explainations.
2006-12-22 06:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by selchiequeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a feeling or need to ask its probably because you need to look into it. I hope this doesnt apply to you, but I just wanna wish you luck and a merry christmas, God bless.
2006-12-18 13:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by ☆Karma☆ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wearing special clothes, buying new clothes, wearing more makeup, wearing more jewellery, more argumentative with you and in good mood alone, keeps going missing, lots of perfume, brushes teeth when she goes out, hides phone around, keeps phone on silent in evenings, loosing weight, starts to get more adventurous and new ways of having sex.
2006-12-18 21:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by stars 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how did you get that idea? maybe you are just wrong. dont judge a book by its cover.. observed your wife. if you want you can hire a detective.
2006-12-18 15:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by ladyrose 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she is on the phone and and acts secretively, when you find condoms in her purse, she's always smiling when times are bad with u and her, and she has hickeys on her neck and u know u didn't give them to her.
2006-12-18 14:05:53 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋