i had a conversation with a man in a formal meeting as our mutual friend introduce us.. i was being polite and asking abt his business. i am kinda frindly with everyone. suddenly he mentioned abt his wife and the topic is also out. i felt so insulted because he thought i was flirting.. i had no idea at all he thought that way. i was so insulted.. i didn't feel attracted to him at all.. because i have the best boyfriend at the moment.. what do u think?? should i b angry and insulted???!!!
2006-12-18 14:01:25 · 8 answers · asked by Tina J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont take it so personally. Next time, smile and say how sweet that he thinks of his wife and that you hope someday youll have such a thoughtful husband. No biggee...you shouldnt feel insulted...maybe it was his way to remind himself he's married.
Most men think that any woman that talks to them is an invitation or flirtation.
2006-12-18 14:07:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're over-reacting.
Even if he did think you might potentially have been free and interested in him, he was decent enough to head off a potential (though he couldn't know it wasn't an actual) difficult situation for you. He let you know that it wasn't that he wouldn't find you attractive, but he was married and his marriage was important to him.
No, you should be neither angry nor insulted. I would say you should be mildly flattered and take note of the fact that he's a decent guy. If he's decent in relation to his wife, he's probably decent in the way he deals with things business-wise as well.
2006-12-18 22:08:56 · answer #2 · answered by Feinschmecker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...don't be so uptight. He just got a different impression is all, or maybe he's just so in love with his wife that he can freely and proudly speak of her in any conversation. After all, if he was your boyfriend, wouldn't you want him to quickly douse another girl's attempts---intended or not---to flirt with him by setting it straight that he has you?
2006-12-18 22:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by Pippa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my goodness ... he sounds like a snobbish guy . you should insult him back in a way . you should say right infront of his face " you don't have to mention your wife , it's not like i am interested in you . my boyfriend is 100000000000 times much more handsome then you . oh . pls . look into the mirror ppls . SO NOT ATTRACTED TO YOU ! ! ! "
2006-12-18 22:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by precious moments babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha , wow kinda like how i gave a guy i like a smoke twice for free , and i do it all the time for everyone else , and because i didnt make him pay one dollar , he assumed i had this HUGE thing for him .... -_-
some men eh??
2006-12-18 22:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by lost in gun fire ...<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he was just thinking about his wife and she came up in conversation. Maybe he wasn't trying to send you any hidden message?
2006-12-18 22:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldnt be anything...he was just clearly stating that he was married and didnt want anything to happen...he was probably the one with the intention of flirting....thats why
SIMPLER TO UNDERSTAND
he probably had thoughts and decided to tell you about his wife before he tried anything.....
so chillax
2006-12-18 22:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by leroy jenkins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he just wanted to mention her, but if you don't like him, then why do you care? hes prolly a loser and i wouldnt let it get to you.
2006-12-18 22:04:52 · answer #8 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋