I started dating a cute guy whom I used to date when we were very young.
Always thought he was cool and nice guy.
Right now Im away from him for a two month job training course.
We never had a talk to be exclusive (we only had 3 dates since we started dating again)
He regularly tells me he misses me and wants me.
It was cute at first but now he keeps saying rough stuff that he wants to do to me. Pull my hair, mak eme hurt a little, Very extreme s & m and roleplay rape.
It sounds more violent than pleasurable.
Should I break it off with him ? Is he just fantasizing ? He seems to get very excited the more violent he makes being physical with me sound.
Should I be scared ?
2006-12-18 13:51:55 · 10 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way just sleep with one eye open.
2006-12-18 13:54:36 · answer #1 · answered by tim b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you dont share that sort of fantasy then I think you should break it off. He probably doesnt mean any harm but if you arnt going to be sexually compatible them there is little point in continuing and that sort of sex play is a bit extreme.
Give him my number...kidding....no really....no, kidding
2006-12-18 21:58:11 · answer #2 · answered by penny century 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really had to trust this days but there is only one thing that l know that u should always trust your instincts.I think thats part of a relationship but it depends on how he says it wether anyhow,playfull or seriously or jokingly
2006-12-18 21:58:42 · answer #3 · answered by mexy71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be uncomfortable with it. Tell him that you are. If it continues & you still feel weird about things break it off~
2006-12-18 21:57:12 · answer #4 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah if he's into that kind of stuff and you're not then it's probably best you break it off with him.
2006-12-18 21:55:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it sounds like he has different sexual desires that you would not find enjoyable. Look for someone else.
2006-12-18 21:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Stimpy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound right... I think you should talk to him and ask waht he's expecting. You could end up hurt.
2006-12-18 21:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, please break things off with him, NOW! If he's saying things like that now, he will do those things & worse the further along you guys get in the relationship.
2006-12-18 21:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by lil star 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
U should tell him u don't like it when he does that stuff and if he doesn't stop than be scared ,.
2006-12-18 21:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by marlon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pulling your hair isn't that violent.
2006-12-18 21:55:22 · answer #10 · answered by jonbreaks 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋