me n my ex have been 2gether 4yrs. We were both 16 when we started. out of nowhere 2 mouths ago she broke up w/ me. Since that we both been on a roller coster ride from hell. She comes back she loves me next week we're just friends. Then after a wk of not talking she calls agian asking 4 help. I go n we for that day get back 2gether. last monday she does it agian n wants to be just friends. I see her last monday n we talk n we seem like friends. I called her today and we talked. I asked her want she wanted and she just wants to be friends, she says she nolonger loves like she use too n she sometimes has mixed feeling but she thinks she is over it. I told her i still luv n i want to marry her. The think is she will not give me a direct answer. some time we act like friends other time we talk like a couple confuseing. what to do. I cant move on. i emailed her n she said she doesnt want to think about it now. does she need time? should i just give her space, so both of us can think?
2006-12-18 14:23:39 · 5 answers · asked by ken hill 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's not taking you seriously. There is obviously mixed emotions involved. I don't think she really wants to be with you anymore if shes using you like that. She's probably over you but doesn't have the guts to say so and she might need you later on for rebound. Your not some toy she can play around with, remember that. Respect yourself.
2006-12-18 14:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by *Beautiful Zephyr* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on she is confused she doesn't want to be your girlfriend
but after 4 years it's hard for her not to have you in her life. You should go out with your friends stop being so available to her . you need a clean break so you can start to meeting new people.
Tell her you value her time and friendship but she has to stop yanking your chain, let her know that she is hurting you by doing that. If she really cares for you she'll either get back with you or she'll stop calling you putting you in that odd position.
2006-12-18 22:32:43 · answer #2 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think honestly right now both of you need space.. you dont want to drive her away by saying things like that when she just wants to be friends and you dont know what is going on i think that if you guys love each other god will let it happen.. i think right now the both of you need to relax and just take some time apart and think about everything that is going on...
2006-12-18 22:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by wendy v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man bro girls are crazy that is all i know im in the same situation son and it is horrible best advice i got so far is that let em be thnk about it if you keep tellin some1 u want them to do something they dont do it but if you just let it be known they usually figure it out on their own leave some space man that is what im bout to do if she comes back she does bro girls man they are crazy
2006-12-18 22:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its over dont drag it on. been through the same thing. move on.
2006-12-18 22:27:47 · answer #5 · answered by kd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋