There is this guy who lives up my street, but does not go to my school and I like him alot. There are these 2 guys I know and one of them is on a football team with him and said he would get the guy I like to come out someday. So about 4 weeks ago me and my 2 friends who I hang out with every Friday walked up my street and saw the 2 guys that said they would get him to come out, so they did and the only thing we talked about was our favorite sports, and what time it is. Now one of the guys told the guy i like that i like him. Every day when me and my 2 friends walk to school, those two boys who are my friends either say that the guy i like thinks I'm cute, or that he is not interested so I don't know what to believe.
Now after reading that whole confusing story I want to know how I can get him to like me even tho he already knows that I like him, and I can't get him to come out of his house without those 2 boys. Thank you so much in advance
2006-12-18 14:27:49 · 14 answers · asked by oReOs 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is there any way you can find out his phone number? If not, maybe you could tape a note to the door (nothing as formal as sending a letter) and just ask him to hang out. That might seem a bit lame but if you make it casual and flirty it could really work... Also, it wouldn't be a futile effort to put on a cute outfit and read a magazine or do homework on the front steps to try to catch his attention.
If you ever see him outside alone, give him a wave and yell out to him. "Hey! I never see you alone -- what happened to Jim and Steve!? I thought they were glued to your side." Just try to strike up a friendly and engaging conversation.
Good luck!
2006-12-18 14:34:35 · answer #1 · answered by Chris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...well i'm not an expert on dating but here is my advice...You can't make someone fall for you but here are some things you can do: 1) Don't be shy (cause he probably is) and make the first move.... maybe you should think of something to talk about so it isn't so okward when it is just you two.
2) do you ever see him in the hallways or something? cause if you do you could just pull him aside one day and start up a conversation! He will feel more comfortable if you are outgoing and not shy!
3) Also..don't be mean or say anything sarchastic because he might take it the wrong way!
But yea that is my advice so i hope you have good luck because i'm definately not at the moment!! Good Luck , Have fun, and BE YOURSELF!! :)
2006-12-18 22:37:34 · answer #2 · answered by VOLLEYBALL ROCKS! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts on this situation are that the boys are playing a game and you might want to let them know the game is over because it seems to me you are going to make a fool of yourself. If the young guy is interested, he will find a way to let you know. Perhaps he is shy, or has no romantic interest in you although you talked about your favorite sports. Perhaps the guy is not ready to have a passionnate relationship yet ! LOL. Please do not be offended, I just want to give you food for thoughts and humour you. have plenty of time ahead of you because I presume you are a young girl yet. Just be patient. The right person will manifest when the time is right. And that person will come out of his house by himself... Right ? Isn't it worth to wait and see rather than playing games like that ?
Good luck and have beautiful holidays!
2006-12-18 22:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by montralia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he either likes you or he doesn't so the real question is whether he likes you or not. to find this out you need to have direct contact with him. the next time you see him you have to tell yourself that you really want him and do the daring thing of going up to him and talking to him. before you do, you must already have an activity to invite him to (like a concert or a movie ) this is a must . and ask him if he would like to go with you. if he can't make it say " well, then do you wanna call me sometime?" this whole should let you know if he likes you or not
2006-12-18 22:34:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through a similar situation. Assuming you're pretty young, you have plenty of time to find the perfect guy. Chances are he's not the one for you. But anyway, just let things turn out and don't be worried about the future. If he's really interested, you'll find out the truth sooner or later.
2006-12-18 22:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by bobcat70 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He already knows you like him, so if he hasn't reacted to that, then move on girl. He doesn't like you enough to even go after you... Don't waste your time. Stop using the other guys to get to him. You never know what the other guys are talking to him about you...
2006-12-18 22:32:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl....juz be urself,walk up to him and ask him "i like u.do u like me?"if he says yes,then u r lucky.if he says no,keep on asking for some period of time(3-4 month) then ignore him completely.if he come 2 u,u got him but if he didn't,the both of u r not meant to be....juz find another bloke,there's millions of them in da world!!!
i use diz method and know im really really happy with my sweetheart.....but it doest always work.....
another thing,when u keep on asking him(or if u r shy,write some letters and put it in his locker or table),make sure he read it and treat da letter seriously.talk(or write)about why u like him and tell him sweet stuff...adn DONT go out with another bloke!u want dat guy,isnt it?a lil' bit of sacrifice wont hurt...
good luck to u!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-18 22:41:26 · answer #7 · answered by jad_hamizan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can not make someone really truly like you it is something that happens on it's own, & you just need to give it some time. He knows that you like him & if things haven't happened the way that you would like them to, you just need to be patient, & talk to him, to see how he feels, or you need to move on.
2006-12-18 22:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make anyone like you. They have to see how special you are and decide for themselves if they like you or not. Don't try to conform to his style or pace. Then you won't be you anymore.
2006-12-18 22:29:53 · answer #9 · answered by gweengrl89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant make someone like u but u can flirt with him and talk to him and get to know him. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-18 22:30:27 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋