a young woman buys from my shop very often so she invited me out once n i told her i can not cos am married,she said she mean nothing by inviting me out.some weeks later she invited me again this time to art exibition .on our way back she picked up her laundry and decided to drop it at her home b4 dropping me off at my shop,she invited me in and offered me some wine,the next thing hpened too sudden ,now she keeps asking for more even vowing to tell my wife if i keep ignoring her ,am so sorry abot this and dont want to lose my wife ,infact am scare! what should i do?
2006-12-18 14:25:08 · 12 answers · asked by cocktail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell her the truth. It's the right thing to do.
2006-12-18 14:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Synth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, this is what you do. Tell your wife there's this girl that buys from your shop regularly. if she knows that you went to the art thingee tell your wife she happened to be there too...if your wife didnt know that you went act like you were never there. Tell your wife this woman is like doing the fatal attraction thing and you don't know what to do about her. If you have a pretty good relationship you should be able to pull it off. Your wife might go get in her face or laugh it off. Just deny, deny, deny. Cover your *** now so if the psycho isn't bluffing you have your butt covered.
If that doesnt work I guess you could always flirt with a man friend in her presence that might really gross her out and she might stay away from you too-just be sure to tell your man friend what you're doing beforehand lol!)
you could also call her bluff and tell her that you told your wife everything and she wants to kick her *** but eveythings good between you and wife lol
2006-12-18 22:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a woman, and if my husband told me he did such a thing, I would ask him to leave, does not matter that I love him, he thought the other one was worth breaking his wedding vows. You will do this again/ Let your wife move on with her life, there are lots of nice guys out there that dont stick there d i c k into anything that moves. I would like to say to all you women who wrote, you wonder why guys fool around, look at your answers, they know you will forgive them, what bull ****
2006-12-19 03:14:28 · answer #3 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your wife there is some crazy woman stalking you. Come clean with the art exibit thing, that way crazy stalker woman doesn't have anything to hold over your head.
Just tell the woman you aren't interested and that you are happily married.
2006-12-18 22:28:16 · answer #4 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstoff, tell your wife. She may be upset but I think she will be understanding. Much more understanding then hearing it from somebody else. Let the customer know that you are not interested and to stop asking. Tell your manager. If it's your shop be rude and hope she doesn't come back. It's not worth risking your marriage for someone manipulative whom you do not care for.
2006-12-18 22:29:03 · answer #5 · answered by leilacara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your wife before she does. If your wife loves you enough then she will understand. If nothing happened then you have nothing to worry about. She sounds like a creep. Tell her to leave you alone and if she says that she is going to tell your wife then tell her that you already did that and she knows everything and whatever she says to her she won't believe. Good luck I hope everything works out for you.
2006-12-18 22:34:28 · answer #6 · answered by odd622 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fatal attraction! Talk to your wife. She will probably hate you, and be very hurt for some time on this one. Be sincere, and honest. That is probably the only way you're going to get out of this mess. Shoulda, coulda, woulda!!!!
2006-12-18 22:31:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you put yourself in a spot to be tempted, & now it is too late. You need to tell your wife. You should have never went with the lass to begin with, & you should at least be the first to tell your wife. Shame on the little home wrecking ho that put you in this position, & good luck to you.
2006-12-18 22:29:23 · answer #8 · answered by sis_jk27 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be the first to tell the wife and deal with her getting mad. Then make sure that you and her tell this girl together to leave you alone. She will not have any black mail then.
2006-12-18 22:27:58 · answer #9 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Repent and ask God, in the name of Jesus to protect you from your transgressions. Pray for the lady to get blessed at her point of need and also pray for your family. They deserve better and discipline in getting into the will of the Lord will do it! Br prepared to explain to your wife if it ever comes up too.
2006-12-18 22:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋