I just got out of a 4 year relationship. I knew for a couple months that it was going nowhere, so it was no shocker when i ended it. It's been about a month and I'm really starting to like one of my guy friends, I told him how i felt, and he feels the same. I really want to go out with him, but I'm afraid it might just be a rebound. I feel like I really care about him, how do I know if I do or not?
2006-12-18 14:28:24 · 9 answers · asked by carxoxo07 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The supposed feeling after a long term relationship is "it takes the same amount of time that you dated to get over the person completely." I think that's untrue. It just all depends on the person. Frankly, if you really feel as strongly as you seem to, I wouldn't really think it was a rebound, mainly because you awknowledge that there actually feelings towards the guy and not just something to fill the void of not being in a relationship.
The whole "rebound" feeling seems to just be in your head for fear of hurting this guy, but if you feel enough to know that it is not a rebound, then go for it.
Good Luck
2006-12-18 14:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by melloncollieromance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm could be hard to tell but you have to start somewhere right? You should just try it out..go out see where it goes.. Take things one day at a time, you will figure it out. If its not the real thing then your just one step closer to finding it. If it is the was a step well taken :)
2006-12-18 22:42:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me it sure sounds like more of a fling that you want. yes in a way he would be a rebound. sometimes a person can not help to feel the way he/she does. go with it, go with what feels right to you. whatever you do not scare him or push him away. best of luck and god bless you.
2006-12-18 22:34:51 · answer #3 · answered by honey2bloved 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best way to mend a broken heart is with a new love..
It could indeed be a rebound romance..
No way to tell..
Give it a try and be careful...
2006-12-19 23:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start by asking urself if this is what u want ? from there on u will figure if its a rebound or not
2006-12-18 22:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by spicywannaknow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of situations
eg
if u went out with him
if somethign bad happened to him
etc..etc..
and ask yourself
"do i really care about him ?"
2006-12-18 22:31:04 · answer #6 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try it
it might not go anywhere for a while, then you'll realize that u really like this guy.
it's worth a shot,........rite
2006-12-18 22:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a break from dating
2006-12-18 22:39:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does your gut feeling tell you. How does he make you feel when you are around him.
2006-12-18 22:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋