I am confused.. I read something today and my boyfriend asked a question is it wrong to be with my girlfriend if she is pregnant.. Well is it wrong to love somebody who has cheated on you and might be the father of another girls baby that he had cheated on you with?? I need answer please help.. My son is due in 5 weeks and 4 days and I need to know if what I should do........
2006-12-18 14:30:58 · 14 answers · asked by dhohlfelder18 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is not wrong if the two care enough to put everything behind them and start a new. The cheater will always have a certain guilt but now there is a child involved and the two must search inside themselves to see what each wants- being together or not? Do not stay with someone because of a pregnancy or a child in any terms staying together if there is a genuine feeling of affection - the child will feel the difference and needs love not just a love for the child but a love and respect to each adult that has contact-- a loving home is better than a ok you are knocked up so I will stick it out for the kid home!
Always remember that both of you made this child together and so on - include him- make him a father and teach him that no matter the outcome he will be in the childs life from the begining!
2006-12-18 14:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by dragonflyaway69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you asking if it's okay to have sex since your pregnant? yes it is. Are you asking is it okay that you love him even though he cheated on you? yes it is. Are you asking is it okay if you stay with him? That is a hard one do you think this is the first time he cheated on you? Is he sorry for what he did? Does he plan on being in both of his kids life? You need to get some answers from him first.
2006-12-18 14:44:36 · answer #2 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I get it and here's what you should do. Once a cheater,always a cheater.Kick the bum to the curb, but when your son is born get a paternity test for the baby's father. You will need to go to court to work out child support,visitation,etc. Find a new man who will love you and your new son. You deserve it.
2006-12-18 14:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im a little confused as to what exactly it is your asking... are you saying you cheated on your boyfriend and are having someone elses baby, or that your boyfriend cheated on you whi;le you were pregnant and he got someone else pregnant?? Fill in the blanks hun and we can help you a little better, cause i know what it feels like to deal with an a**hole while pregnant so if thats the case then i can do my best to help you out!!
~CHEERS!!~
2006-12-18 14:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by Romy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he has cheated on you and wrote is it wrong to be with gf if she is pregnant, then better to go home and see if he follows you...sounds like he does not care about you enough...as a father, I never felt like leaving, i was looking forward to the birth, the baby, daipers and being a Dad.
2006-12-18 14:35:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anil P 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were the customer, i would not have been indignant. in spite of the undeniable fact that, i could have been very aggravated by using using such slang. It does sound vulgar, and not what i could assume from a mature grownup guy or woman. it may grate on my nerves. aside from the "adult adult males", in case you communicate on your purchasers such as you write, your English is abominable. i'm initially from Brooklyn, ny, the place that language is meant to be trouble-unfastened. in spite of the undeniable fact that, i've got in no way heard it that undesirable over there. the place did you p.c.. it up? on the different hand, it is likewise unsettling once I hear sir or madam; a minimum of in my area of the country. it particularly is plenty greater trouble-unfastened interior the South. i pass out to consume plenty. fairly some the waiters and waitresses are youthful. they are all very friendly and polite. yet i've got in no way heard them handle all people like that. they'd say, "How is each and every person in the present day?" And as quickly as we end our meal, they'd say, "substitute into each and everything ok?. Have a great day". i'm hoping which you're no longer indignant by using my answer.
2016-10-18 11:27:26 · answer #6 · answered by lurette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated once, he will most likely cheat again. Besides, you and your baby deserve much better. You don't need a man that is out messing with other woman. He is obviously having unprotected sex. Think about diseases! Your baby needs you to be around for him/her. You will find a more mature man someday. Just concentrate on raising your baby. It is so much fun!
2006-12-18 14:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to worry about yourself and this baby that you are about to have. the last month is critical in gaining weight for you baby, average a pound a week. please try and stay stress free and worry about this later and focus on becoming a young mom. when i had my first i was very stressed and in a horrible relationship and my baby wasn't growing. the last month of my pregnancy, i moved back in with my parents and didn't talk to the bio father and my baby was born perfectly healthy. please just take care of yourself. go get a pedicure, take a long (not too hot) bath. good luck!
2006-12-18 14:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to be 'with' him, but you should keep in mind that he is the father of your child. If he wants to be at the hospital when you have the baby...fine. It's his baby too...but don't YOU feel obligated to stay with him in a relationship, if he's not right for you.
2006-12-18 14:33:52 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well..don't get confused! Cheating is bad. Don't get angry when you are expecting a baby. Be cool.
2006-12-18 14:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋