I had a 10years good relationship. Everyone had thouht that we'll end up together but he didn't bother mentioning of plans getting married. I begin to felt cold and met somebody and broke with him,. Im happy..got married and got 2 kids as well... While he still remain single and not heard he's into a relationship after ours. My confusion is... I met and dated my husband not officially broke up with my ex and not really spoke to him what causes the break up. My ex just found out that soon I'm getting married. I'm felt quite guilty knowing that he's not into relationship nor not seeing anyone. by the way, im his first. Should I speak to him and apoligize for the hurt that i cause???. God, Its been 6 years......
2006-12-18 14:27:50 · 6 answers · asked by milkee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You want to tell him what? That you were a jerk? That you didn't love him enough to stay together? What you really want is for him to tell you that it is OK and that you didn't hurt him.
Contacting him would not be for his good but for your good. You are being selfish to do this. He would be hurt more by you contacting him than by you leaving him alone. He just wants to forget you and go on with his life.
2006-12-18 14:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if ur happily married its not wise to dig for trouble. Like u said u were together for 10 years and he never introduce marriage. Then u need to think about what ur better of with. In the mean while now that u have a child consider think about that gift.
2006-12-18 14:41:17 · answer #2 · answered by spicywannaknow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have nothing to feel guilty about! If he is a procrastinator and not assertive he will miss out on lots of other things as well. Wish him well and cut it off completely.
2006-12-18 14:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over. If you want to write a letter saying goodbye then do that but personal contact would probably jeapordize your current relationship.
2006-12-18 23:17:14 · answer #4 · answered by Jack P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you shouldn't call him or anything else.
go on with your life and let him live his. he is a grown up capable of having relationships other than the one he had with you.
2006-12-18 14:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u were his first, he probably was wondering if it was ment to be or something like that... just confront him n talk about it
2006-12-18 14:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by Its me ppl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋