im 18
we were at a friends house
and my bf cousin(boy) was there
my boyfriend wasnt there
and his cousin started flirting with me
and i just started talking to him
then all of a sudden he kisses me
and now everytime he sees me
he tries to kiss me
i dont wanna tell my bf cuz i dont
want to be the reason for them to fight
ive told his cousin to leave me alone but he just wont stop
but why is this guy doing this?
he knows im going out with his cousin(my bf)
why would he do this?
he starte
2006-12-18 15:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by MoNiCa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell your boyfriend. Tell your best girl friend, and make sure you're never alone with him.
If his cousin keeps doing this while no one is looking he's taking advantage of you trying to force you into things and thinks he can get away with it because you're not telling anyone.
You should get your boyfriend and his cousin in the same room. Tell the cousin this is the last time you going to tell him to leave you alone, then tell your boyfriend what's been going on. If they fight it's not gonna matter, their family and his cousin should show some decency and respect for your boyfriend. If it were anyone in my family pulling that crap I'd tell them to cut it out and then beat the s*** out of them if my girl said they tried again.
Now just to make things clear, I do NOT advocate girls kicking guys in the balls, unless it is abosolutely neccessary to protect themselves. [Too many girls out there think its funny or that they have the right to attack the balls for ANYTHING other than protection] After you tell your boyfriend what's been going on, the next time the cousin tries to kiss you or feel you up, I'd say (in THIS case) kick him in the balls, then tell or call you boyfriend so he can beat the s*** out of his cousin for still disrespecting him.
2006-12-18 16:11:16 · answer #1 · answered by Rukh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop going to his place or being alone anywhere with you boyfriend's cousin. Did you push him the first time he started to kiss you or you just let it be? If you didn't, he may think that you like him. Some men don't know "no" mean no. Maybe you can talk to their mother or sister.
Take care.
2006-12-18 23:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all you don't tell him it's gonna turn out ugly. His cuz'n the one kiss'n you like he likes you will find away to break you and him up, his resoucess to do so is that you've let him kiss you, he'll probably say that you kissed him. your boyfriend will be pissed andprobably have a slim chance of staying with him. Depending on how much he trusts you.tell your boyfriend, no secretes should be keept between a relationship worth saving. If you tell him I don't wanna keep secretes between us then I bet he'll think of that and know that your telling him cuz you care about the relationship, and that you want to stay with him. Tell him and all will be lefted outa your chest.
2006-12-18 23:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't stop, you'll have to tell the b/f.. BUT the B/F may take cousins side anyway. Tough perdicument. However, if yoyu are honest, and you do your best to stop it, YOU will feel better about yourself. If B/F goes with cousins side, he's not much of a b/f anyway
2006-12-18 23:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by hudson_floridamale 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he likes you or loves you or just joking around or having a urge to kiss somebody
2006-12-18 23:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by anna_banana♥LALakers. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋