How do i tell her....There is this one girl...shes beautiful...we are the best of friends and get along like we could be together forever...i never forget to tell her she's beautiful... i wanna just run up to her and kiss her all over to show her how much i am in love with her...it's not lust i guarantee it...we've been best friends for a couple years...lust would have wore off...but i dont wanna tell her that i love her because i dont want her to take it wrong and have awkwardness....shes interested in another guy...i think its gone a little past interest...i dont ask her about it because i dont wanna hear it if its bad news...i wanna tell her how i feel about her...tell me what you think...and maybe give me some things to say to her that would help me out...thanks to all.
2006-12-18 15:34:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the second one...it wasnt showing up on my computer.
2006-12-18 15:34:57 · update #1
The same situation happened between my husband and me. We were really good friends and then he asked me out but I said I just wanted to stay friends, and BECAUSE i valued our relationship I remained friends and was never weirded out by him opening up to me about his feelings.
We each dated other people and remained friends for almost 3 years until I opened my eyes to what was in front of me the whole time and I realized that my best friend is who I wanted to be with for the rest of my life!
We are very happily married with kids and we attribute it all to having been strictly friends first. We didn't get to know each other as boyfriend-girlfriend, we got to know each other as friends who confide in each other, lean on each other for support, and were never afraid to be ourselves in front of the other, you know?
The best advice that I can give you is be yourself. Tell her how you feel and hopefully she feels the same way. But if she doesn't, how she treats the situation will be a test of her true colors and what you really mean to her, romantic or not. Isn't it worth the risk to find out if she really does like you in the same way or if you're just wasting your time losing sleep over someone who doesn't really care?
Best of luck!
2006-12-18 15:54:03 · answer #1 · answered by mamabunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.k so u like her? Well if you just sit there and stay out of the game theres no way you can win, but if you get in the game you might have a chance! You can never know unless you try! Just tell her that she's really important to you and that you think she is the nicest and prettiest girl you've ever met!
2006-12-18 15:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it like it's kind of a joke. Say, "Hey, what about me? I'm getting kind of jealous here!"
Check out her reaction. If she does a double take, and looks at you as in "What?" Keep a playful tone. "What do you think of me anyway, you know, as a man?" If she has to actually think for a moment, you might be able to pursue the idea.
If she laughs it off rightaway and gives you a fast answer, just play it off like it was a joke.
Hope you get the result you want. Good luck!
2006-12-18 15:43:34 · answer #3 · answered by dkuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her somewhere special and TELL HER. TELL HER, TELL HER! You don't want things to go too far with the other guy before you tell her how you feel, do you?! What if she marries him not knowing there could have been a chance with you! DO IT...before it's too late!
2006-12-18 15:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah! You have got to tell this girl how you feel and soon before you burst! Don't run up to her and frantically yell this stuff at her. Tell her calmly and nicely how you feel and how strong your attraction is for her. If she likes the other guy, its time for you to move on, but otherwise, great!
2006-12-18 15:38:13 · answer #5 · answered by susie q 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth- lay your cards out on the table, honesty is the best policy on this issue. Good luck.
2006-12-18 15:37:25 · answer #6 · answered by jyone scotani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if you can take your emotions out of the picture, and solve it like a maths equation.
2006-12-18 15:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by errr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u love her?
if hes and serious
then go to her and hold her hand and say that u love her and remember that u should have an eye contact.
say """i love you""""......... tell u can't do it ur self i'll help u
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2006-12-18 15:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by RaJa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey man, you may have but one shot at this, so take it!
2006-12-18 15:38:09 · answer #9 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how u feel.
2006-12-18 15:38:33 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋