ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message
hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!
<3 (name)
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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking
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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight
heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)
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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that
2006-12-18 15:04:23 · 10 answers · asked by lbsf2904 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Either she's found a good friend in you or wants you as back up in case it doesn't work out with the rest.
2006-12-18 15:29:49 · answer #1 · answered by January Flower 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know a 2 year relationship is no joke,nobody can just break up and say "wanted to date around and see whats out there...blablabla" theres more reason than just that,anyway 2yrs...and then suddenly after 2 weeks shes already dating sum1,well theres your answer shes not yet over u and is already dating that highschool guy u dont like,huh,and everytime they date she gets this flashbacks of you,remembers u,things u talked about,places u go and they passed by it,laughters..ect...dating brings back memories that is still fresh,so instead of taking sometime to heal the wound shes actually exposing herself for further damage,
shes not even thinking.because its her feelings doin all the talkin and maybe doesnt notice that she still misses u,otherwise y invite u to her party.
she sends u messages sounding like shes ok and happy..but that is just to cover up the sadness...she should stop dating that other guy,and maybe she wud stop sending you stuff,and try to forget before starting again.
its probably not gonna stop unless u talk to her,or stopped dating the other guy
2006-12-19 00:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by J o h n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sufferend from the grass is greener on the other side syndrome. well she misses u and wants u back. do u really want her? dont u want to see who else is out there? u'll never know...dont go back with her just cause you dont feel confident that you can't get anyone. i dont know how young you are but trust me you can get another girl. she regrets her move..but hey you never know whats in store of you if you dont try! slapshot69's got some good words too! its true!
2006-12-18 23:14:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to get in your pants. Whenever you ignore a chick, you become more attractive to them. Its up to you to decide what you should do. How do you know that other guy will be there if you go there? If you want to get in her pants, give it a shot. Being in a relationship with her again would not be wise. You'll always be wondering when she is going to go searching for something "better." If you move on you'll be better off!
2006-12-18 23:10:14 · answer #4 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she's a stalker to be texting that much, as for the heaadline, What is she thinking? Only God knows what they're thinking cause I still can't figure women out, not sure if want to either
2006-12-18 23:09:50 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you said she broke up with you because she want to see what out there. that mean she never said she didnt love you..
i believe she still love you but she is love to playing with love games... You are one of the chess.. Got it...
while if you still love her, then accept her. If nope, just ignore her..let her feel losing on good deal...
2006-12-18 23:15:21 · answer #6 · answered by Sweety21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she wants to have fun with this other guy, but still keep you on the hook just in case the other doesn't work out.
2006-12-18 23:07:54 · answer #7 · answered by slpkwp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She miss you,
she can't make up her mind, she love the attention and she just want to know if she can have you when she wanted.
2006-12-18 23:18:39 · answer #8 · answered by latina_y_sincera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she still has feelings for you deep inside
2006-12-18 23:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by pnoybaler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... what is she thinking? She misses you.
2006-12-18 23:10:23 · answer #10 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋