i dint bleed on first time, so my bf feels i m not virgin.Is that much necessory? or that we did not reach to the extreem level??any idea abt what cud b the prob?
2006-12-18 14:57:15 · 15 answers · asked by sweetu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, you don't necessarily bleed, who cares what he thinks anyways. Women are not cattle, you don't have to be a virgin, why don't you ask him if he is? If he is not, why should you have to be? And, if he is so concerned about propriety, then why is he having intercourse with you when you are not married. I wouldn't worry about it, live your life the way you see fit.
2006-12-18 15:00:57 · answer #1 · answered by me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont always bleed. cuz the thing that breaks is supposed to bleed but some people could easily break it just by running.
2006-12-18 23:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend may be lacking a few inches give or take? I didn't bleed the first time either...
2006-12-18 23:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Alicia S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obvously doesnt under stand the female body, just cause a woman dosent bleed doesnt mean shes not a virgin. all female bodies are different. tell him that if he dosent believe you to look it up in books and on the internet.
2006-12-18 23:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by Richina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not necessary to bleed the first time!
2006-12-18 23:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal. some girls don't. I didn't. it could have happened with some earlier trauma, like a fall or using tampons. Also, heavy foreplay could have caused it to happen earlier. I hope your boyfriend trusts you enough to believe you. he can look up this information himself.
2006-12-18 23:01:17 · answer #6 · answered by -- 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its not compulsory. r u athlete. or u ride bicycle.? .dont worry. take out all these small things from ur mind. enjoy the life.
2006-12-19 05:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by kalasarpa009 k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dun haf too i think
maybe it did bleed but u jus didnt realise it cause its too little
2006-12-18 22:59:18 · answer #8 · answered by van_kit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls do some don't it just depends on your body.
2006-12-18 23:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by Jen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
does your b/f want to have good sex with you (or to have intercourse with a virgin, or to see blood) - let him make his choice !
2006-12-19 02:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋