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My ex has a girlfriend.. But he has told me that he is still inlove with me.. He isn't inlove with her.. He cares for her but that is about all.. She lives with him.. But he still has sex with me.. I am also pregnant.. Not sure if he or my other ex is the father but My true love is always there for me.. He told me that there could be a chance for us to get back together.. Should I wait or let go?

2006-12-18 15:04:24 · 9 answers · asked by underwood80@verizon.net 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Me and my true love have two kids already so we will be involved that way for a long time.. We were together for 9 Years.. How do you let that go?

2006-12-18 15:16:37 · update #1

9 answers

you should let go.you shouldnt have done this in the first place because you're still wrong. dont be upset if this guy decides to leave you with the baby and maybe he's just playing with your mind.

2006-12-18 15:08:01 · answer #1 · answered by Savannah 4 · 0 0

Oh girl, let it go. Seriously, if it is true love it will come back to you. But the fact that you are pregnant and don't know who the father is and the fact that he is living with another girl tells me that neither one of you should be involved with each other. Both of you need to get your lives together (especially you with a baby on the way). Give yourself some time, focus on you. Really think about where your life is and where you want it to be. Then make a plan for yourself. Set some goals. Concentrate on setting things up for this baby so that the baby has a stable life when it comes into this world. If this boy really is your soul mate, your paths will cross again, I assure you. Good Luck!

2006-12-18 15:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by Goddess 4 · 1 0

Honey, let go. This sounds like its been going on 4 a while. He is messing with u n only wants u 4 the sex. He wudn't b living with another girl if he trully luved u. Sorry. My advice is 2 get done a dna test 2 c who is the father n move on after telling the father n c wut he says. U dont need a guy like that n ur life, luv blinds u from the truth so dont beat urself up over not cing this b4. I hope everything works out 4 u. Good Luck!

2006-12-18 15:14:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if he loves u he would get rid of the girlfriend before he does anything. He is having it both ways. Let it go. If he dumps the girlfriend then go slowly. Be careful

2006-12-18 15:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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2016-10-15 05:22:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

let go, he's using you for the sex if he's living with the other one

2006-12-18 15:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by singledad 7 · 2 0

i think you should go cuz if he really cared about you he would have you right now and be living with you no matter what. he had to do.

2006-12-18 15:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by shay shay 1 · 0 0

hun you should let go. because not only are you getting hurt but the other woman is to.

2006-12-18 15:14:01 · answer #8 · answered by sweet sweet me 3 · 0 0

You done screw'd your self ova it's about to be some drama, just let go man!!!!!!

2006-12-18 15:24:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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