Family & Relationships - 17 December 2006

I really like him, and he really feels for me. he states that he is getting divorsed and sooner or later, you know. thing will be good. I absolutly care for this guy and he is such a good friend to me. Should I follow my heart and keep falling for him? Who knows when he will get divorsed.

2006-12-17 15:11:50 · 3 answers · asked by sweetredhotz 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, I'm 20 and my girlfriend just turned 17. I'm legally an adult and she is still a minor. A lot of people think this is wrong and I want to know why. We're not having sex and don't plan to until marraige, so what's the problem? We both genuinly love each other and want to start our lives together, and don't want to break up just because a lot of people think it's wrong. My girlfriend is afraid we both might get in trouble, but we dont want to break up. I told her that those people can screw what they think, because we both know were not doing anything wrong.

Is continuing this relationship wrong??

2006-12-17 15:11:48 · 17 answers · asked by srm4hvk29 3 in Singles & Dating

I have two daughters. One is 5, who is by my ex and a 2 year old who is by my husband. Every year my family, just the girls, get together to bake cookies for Christmas. This year it was at my house. My 5 yo, was with her Dad and he brought her over so she could play with her cousins. Since my Grandma lives close to my ex, she was going to take my daughter back to him (his visitation time wasn't over yet.) Before leaving, my Grandma wanted to pack up some cookies for my ex. She tried to make it a secret knowing I would get mad. Well, I found out. I did get mad at her for it. This is a guy that hasn't paid me a dime in child support for 5 months now and has been dragging out the court hearings about it. I don't understand why she would want to do anything for him. I feel like she is always taking up for him and that I should bend over backwards for him. Everytime I'm upset over something he does she's like "you have to get along." We do get along. How do I confront her?

2006-12-17 15:11:38 · 9 answers · asked by dmh2105 2 in Family

i had a prom last week..me & bunch of friends were staying in 1 of d hotels in town...well that's not the point..the problem is,i invited this guy 2 hang with us & he's crazy over me but i really dont like him..(kinda scared of him)..i just invited him 2 be nice so that i dont hv 2 go out with him alone some other days since that time i hv my friends with me..it began like this,8 first i called him asking if he would like 2 join us but few mins later i changed my mind & call him again 2 tell him he dint hv 2 come but he insisted..well,m still ok with that..then when he came,we talk but i noticed that he was checking on my boobs!!! i was really mad & scared 8 once..then i began 2 find ways so that he could go home...n i think he got the hint & he went back..he was kinda mad & he said ive shudnt hv invited him...i felt really bad after that...he msg my sister telling her that he doesnt like the way i treated him that time & he was mad & embarrased...

2006-12-17 15:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Note: We are just friends.

2006-12-17 15:10:38 · 39 answers · asked by Sagar 6 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of five years was my first intimate partner. we had a break of 8 months during that time i met and slept with someone else. I went back with my ex and ended with the other guy. My long time bf asked me if I had been with another guy sexually during the break I said NO because I was afraid of his reaction we are hispanic and I know our man specially when they have been your first. I didn't say it because I didn't want to hurt him,honestly. A year passed and I was diagnosed with HSV 2 I had to confess that during the break i had been with someone else. he broke up with me he didn't believe me since he tested negative he accused me of cheating and insulted me so much. the other guy claims not to have it his GF is pregnant and they haven't seen anything unusual he says that if he did get exposed it's been over two years and nothing has happened. I told my ex he took ito far i din't cheat! I lied out of love. what u think? please don't be rude is a really bad time 4 me. thanks

2006-12-17 15:10:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-17 15:09:46 · 3 answers · asked by art_girlt 3 in Friends

Friends for ~6 years. best friends for almost all of them. in college together. shes always been more than a friend. how can i prove to her that i DO want to be the boyfriend.

2006-12-17 15:08:57 · 16 answers · asked by traumahawk3345 1 in Singles & Dating

i just asked a question why my wife who's ten years younger and absolutely beautiful and successful would accuse me of flirting, cheating, and being nasty to me sometimes. I needed to add some information to the last question. We have 3 kids between us and I know the signs of cheating (my first wife cheated) and she doesn't exibit the typical signs so i don't think she's stepping out or doing the transference thing onto me.plus we're with each other almost all the time when not at work. I know she was emotionally abused as a kid by her mother somewhat and her daughter's father basically walked out on her (but she has a good relationship with her father and mother now). she is very sensitive to criticism and i try my best but she still thinks i'm doing all these crazy things behind her back and it feels like she's beating me down sometimes. i'm a really good man and would never disrespect her. she knows i love her so why the nastiness to a man that really loves her to death?

2006-12-17 15:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by Johnny appleseed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-17 15:08:03 · 9 answers · asked by Rock 1 in Family

You hear people quote half of the statement but forget to finish...

'Trust and being Trust-worthy are the most important things in a relationship'.

2006-12-17 15:07:49 · 13 answers · asked by Nep 6 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 15:07:16 · 9 answers · asked by yanie 1 in Singles & Dating

Looking for Summer Cunningham. last known of Rocklin, CA..any help?

2006-12-17 15:05:42 · 3 answers · asked by Lewis 2 in Friends

Just seems that some folks just don't know what it is to have a heart, or feel for others.

2006-12-17 15:05:25 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need advice...i have a enourmous crush on my aunt...she is so beautiful...but she has three boys...single mom...should i tell her? every time i see her its just...wow...

2006-12-17 15:05:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm going over to my boyfriend's house for the first time on Tuesday afternoon. He's been over to my house a couple times before and the last time he was over he put his arm around me and held my hand while watching a movie. I'm the only child so we had some privacy to be a little bit more cuddly. However, I'm a little hesitant to cuddle with him when I go over to his house this Tuesday with his parents being there and his three younger sisters. Should we lay off on the physical affection even if they aren't in the room? This sounds like such a silly question, but I just don't want to make a fool of myself the first time I hang out at his house.

2006-12-17 15:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by sincerely 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i need to get my boyfriend a hoodie for chrismas but i don't know witch one he likes he told me he likes rock so i was thinking about getting him one with skulls but witch one can i get that is for boy. i really need help.

2006-12-17 15:04:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I haven't seen my ex boyfriend in almost a year and he wants to "meet up" with me next week. I'm so shocked and confused as to why he wants to see me. We only dated for a month and it was a very innocent relationship, we never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save sex for marriage. Neways, he would still contact me on msn even though HE was the one who ended it. A few days ago I logged on msn and he said "we should meet up if I have time". I said sure, and now we're meeting up next week. It's Christams break and he said he's gonna go to Hong Kong on Dec. 30th and travel for 3 weeks. So why does he wanna see me after one year and especialy before he goes on his trip???

2006-12-17 15:04:20 · 10 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I mentor a 15 year old girl who is really shy. I am trying to find some fun and fairly inexpensive activities (about $20 USD per time we do something) that we can do together. We've gone out to eat and shopping so far, but I want to find something more creative for us to do. I am with her once a week for about 3 hours or so. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated. I've forgotten what I liked to do at 15...I am 32 now. Thanks for any advice and/or help!!

2006-12-17 15:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by Tiggers 3 in Friends

Should i tell her how i feel? or Leave the situation alone? I was planning on getting her a diamond necklace for christmas to show her that i love her. P.s When i went out with her 8 years ago i cheated on her and that was why we broke up >.<

2006-12-17 15:03:23 · 2 answers · asked by Javon E 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this awesome boy during my vacation, and we talk but is it only a summer thing which we can flirt with other people or is it TRUE bf and gf relations? :)

2006-12-17 15:03:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anna G 1 in Singles & Dating

y is it so difficult .is it jus becos i am a gammer n dont spend much time out .i mean like all the nice girls tht i have luved have either left the country ,or they have some retards as their bfs .

2006-12-17 15:02:48 · 10 answers · asked by (omplExity _|_ 1 in Singles & Dating

i am going to give up on a R/S. My family indirectly tell'n me tat they dont really like my bf as he is 21(kind of still kids) and im 20. They think i deserve a more mature bf to take care of me. This is not the main issue. The major problem is that, my bf has no trust in me.. no matter wat i do he suspect. I m tired being stuck in between my family and my R/S. Shld i give up? This is a R/S which is not blessed by others.. i find it meaningless..
How shld i ask for a break up?

2006-12-17 15:02:15 · 15 answers · asked by Its me! 3 in Singles & Dating

Recently I got a kidney infection. I was in excruciating pain. So much pain that I was throwing up and screaming out in pain every now and then. My bf told me to take a Tylenol and go to sleep. Finally it got so bad I needed to go to ER. He said, "you'll be alright going by yourself, right?" I told him I wanted him to take me to the hospital. I had to call the cab. I had to pay for the cab. Meanwhile he complained about the fact that he was moving to a new apartment the next day and needed time to pack and that he had a meeting at work. Finally, I was placed in a hospitla bed. My bf insisted on climbing into the hospital bed with me, saying that he needed his rest more than me. Finally, he left, to go pack. I was kept in hospital about half a day. He never called to check on me. I had to walk home in the rain later that day & he didn't call me until the next day.

Am I right to want to chew him out about this, big time? He doesn't see a problem with his behavior at al

2006-12-17 15:02:09 · 28 answers · asked by Very Nice Indeed! 1 in Singles & Dating

He's really cute but I'm not even sure he knows I exist.I csn't talk to him because I think he has a girlfriend and I wouldn't want to make it seem obvious but what do I do?I pointed him out to my friends last time I was there and they all say he's really cute too.But last time I ended up crying because I really thought he ahd a girlfriend and I didn't have anybody to skate with and it was couple skating.please someone help!!!

2006-12-17 15:01:38 · 3 answers · asked by ashey321 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex borke up with me and she said that she was cutting copntact yet he keeps containg me one way or another. why does she do this??? can no contact makie someone realise if she loves me still???? does she stil have feelings for me casuse she still does this?? the reason i ask is i miss her and want her back but she has been ignorant to me then normal i dont understand we were togather 3 years lived togather 2 is this a phase maybe there was alot of jealousy in the relationship have you ever done it in a relationship

2006-12-17 15:01:36 · 1 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

american, and I hate the idea of giving flowers...but will do anything to show love.....will that be ok with a typical american...or she will uderstand me being from different country and pass on it..?

2006-12-17 15:01:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-17 15:00:39 · 20 answers · asked by andrei b 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a little conflicted as to what to do. I got a facebook (which is just like myspace) and I had it for about a week and people were really happy I got one and sent me nice messages. I'm really shy and trying to integrate myself a little more and thought this could help. And I got in touch with some friends who graduated last year. Anyway, about a week after that someone deleted me from their friend list a few hours after I put them on and I got paranoid that everyone hated me and deleted it without telling any of by friends. They seemed a little po'd because it might look like you deleted them but I think they figured out that I got rid of it. I was going to apologize but they never asked me or said anything about it and seemed to have gotten over, though in general they seem more distant. I don't know if I should get it back and apologize. It is fun, ideally, it would be nice if I were friends with everyone and didnt have to worry about all the bs but honestly it causes me a lot of stress, it was getting to the point where it was obsessive when I had it. But I also know that realistically, I will never have any connection top my friends that graduated last year and my friends that will graduate with me next year. I also don't want people to think I got rid of it because of anything I saw on there of theirs. WHat would you do?

2006-12-17 15:00:37 · 1 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

I like him and I think he likes me more than a friend too, but I don't know what to do. What should I do?

2006-12-17 15:00:05 · 12 answers · asked by K_K 1 in Friends